tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post4913727710042649031..comments2023-05-17T08:14:10.789-07:00Comments on Men, Women, and Society: The Open Thread: March 2016 Aaron Sleazyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06704230661761052919noreply@blogger.comBlogger73125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-49163397905696965482016-04-08T22:24:46.870-07:002016-04-08T22:24:46.870-07:00Krauser is:
-40 (or so)
-unemployed
-living with h...Krauser is:<br />-40 (or so)<br />-unemployed<br />-living with his parents<br />-unattractive<br />-short<br /><br />Every hot girl I've ever known wouldn't have anything to do with the guy. In fact, most of them would outright pity him. Quite a lot of game indeed.AnonymousForNowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10004737344321077576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-23637736145484549442016-04-02T12:03:04.442-07:002016-04-02T12:03:04.442-07:00Well, other anonymous, I was not even talking abou...Well, other anonymous, I was not even talking about a girl that will fulfill all my needs because I already know that such a perfect relationship doesn't exist. All I'm asking is loyalty/trustworthiness/reliableness. If you cannot rely on someone, then you cannot make any long-term plan.<br /><br />And since I saw what I saw, I cannot trust any woman. I became very good at identifying patterns and I know when I identify one, it is only a matter of time before the girl will do some nasty shit being my back or just simply lose interest.<br /><br />I don't want to marry a woman and then 3 years later, just because she is bored and selfish she takes half of my stuff and maybe also ruin our child's life. Also all the administrative bullshit you have to do is a hassle. And of course, I'm not even talking about the psychological pain of suddenly losing your family.<br /><br />So I was very curious how Aaron, that is a very skilled player and has a ton of life experience, did manage to find someone he could trust.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-3088719550244115972016-04-02T03:24:24.706-07:002016-04-02T03:24:24.706-07:00As addendum to this (albeit in German, from German...As addendum to this (albeit in German, from German PBS):<br /><br />German come artists apparently have produced a 16page illustrated manual for muslim migrants on how to "integrate" themselves into German and European culture: <br /><br />http://www.tagesschau.de/deutschlandkunde-fuer-fluechtlinge-101.html<br /><br />From what can be gathered through this video it becomes clear just how substantial the cultural differences are – and how absurd the measures are to somehow mitigate and cover this up.Lucretius Carushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11401874110101292496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-24671850245127252442016-04-01T08:43:42.215-07:002016-04-01T08:43:42.215-07:00Yes, sad but true and sobering to some, I'd ho...Yes, sad but true and sobering to some, I'd hope. I've heard about this as well from friends living in the Hannover area in Lower-Saxony. It's not been conjured up at all.Lucretius Carushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11401874110101292496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-22206227390119356742016-04-01T08:40:01.973-07:002016-04-01T08:40:01.973-07:00Aaron speaks the truth.
Having had quite a number ...Aaron speaks the truth.<br />Having had quite a number of bratty sexual sperm-exchange encounters and now having retreated to a rather monk-like existence of meditation, classical martial arts & learning I occasionally ponder about the same issue.<br />Unfortunately, there is no alternative to traditional, old-fashioned monogamy for a stable and wealthy society: it keeps males' sex drive and female hypergamy in check while providing most men with a woman, allowing them to direct their life energies towards other, more worthwhile purposes.<br />The current customs in Western societies go still against this, because — as Aaron correctly points out — women, as gatekeepers to heterosexual sex, are openly encouraged to go out for genetic shopping, monopolizing men and thereby massively improving their Darwinian fitness to a point where this is now clearly damaging the stability & survival of entire European nations. Aaron assumes that feminism is clearly part of the self-destruction of the West — and I do share that view.<br />However, there are clear countermovements to observe, e. g. take "Generation identitaire" in France & Belgium or similar movements in other countries. <br /><br />I'd wager that certain liberties men have granted to women in good will are prone to getting revoked, ultimately due to raison d'état, to save state & communities. E. g. take Donald Trump's recent take on banning abortion and similar stances from the conservative side of the European spectrum.Lucretius Carushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11401874110101292496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-14623348302675012862016-03-30T14:28:01.790-07:002016-03-30T14:28:01.790-07:00The problem is that society has changed too much. ...The problem is that society has changed too much. In fact, women are incentivized to divorce you. In some countries the incentive are less, in others they are absolutely massive. As a consequence, the odds are simply stacked against you. So, in the end, you are entering a gamble with a partner that neither does not fulfill all your needs --- you don't fulfill all her needs either ---, not feels the moral obligation to stick with you. I agree with your statement regarding having a common goal. Without it, entering a relationship is doomed to fail. However, even if both are on the same page when entering a relationship, there is absolutely no guarantee that the same will still be true in a few years.<br /><br />Also, the Red Pill "alpha male" b.s. won't be of any help. No matter how "alpha" you are, she normally has access to a pool of similar men, and there will be someone who, for instance, looks better and has more money. The same is true in the converse: you most likely have access to women who are younger. In the end, guys leaving their "starter wife" and women divorcing their husbands are simply different sides of the same coin. (However, keep in mind that divorce/breakups are, in the vast majority, initiated by women, which refers back to my statement regarding societal incentives.)Aaron Sleazyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06704230661761052919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-24310241634606996732016-03-30T13:06:39.910-07:002016-03-30T13:06:39.910-07:00I am in a similar situation man! I think I (and yo...I am in a similar situation man! I think I (and you/others in this situation) need to come to terms with the fact that the partner that is there to fulfill all my needs doesn't exist and that goes the other way around too. If I look at other's long term relationships, it often is a deliberate choice of two people to make it work because they value a such a relationship; i.e., it is a lifetime goal that they both want to pursue with effort. But it is by no ways easy or perfect. In fact, I know of little long term relationships that I would want to be part of myself. I also think it requires an amount of conformity that is less likely to be found in people visiting boards such as these.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-23598056724053965022016-03-29T00:49:41.015-07:002016-03-29T00:49:41.015-07:00Answering your question in general would fill a bo...Answering your question in general would fill a book. Taking your personal situation into account and giving advice tailored to your personal situation is something I do in consultation sessions, but not online for free.Aaron Sleazyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06704230661761052919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-70198071959802637242016-03-29T00:35:50.851-07:002016-03-29T00:35:50.851-07:00Yes, this is true. That article even links to sour...Yes, this is true. That article even links to sources.Aaron Sleazyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06704230661761052919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-29797637783385000282016-03-27T14:50:33.437-07:002016-03-27T14:50:33.437-07:00Is this true?
bit.ly/1pEmlEh
Is this true? <br /><br />bit.ly/1pEmlEh<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-87614659436334865062016-03-27T09:29:13.293-07:002016-03-27T09:29:13.293-07:00Diito the "I have a special request, Aaron.&...Diito the "I have a special request, Aaron." guy.<br /><br />What do you think Aaron? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-73709913968014264532016-03-27T04:56:53.627-07:002016-03-27T04:56:53.627-07:00Maybe I am not a scientist, but I have empirical e...Maybe I am not a scientist, but I have empirical experience and it tells me that people have a fixed personality around 20-21. Something tells me that it is the reason why in the "ancient" times, age of majority was precisely around 20-21.<br /><br />A lot of people do a 180 in their personality after their teenage years.<br /><br />And behavior is not personality. For example, despite all my experience with girls, I am still a romantic/sentimentalist (personality) but I don't show it anymore (behavior). Also you can be very arrogant in the inside (personality) but decide not to show it (behavior). Etc. You can change behavior, not personality. I didn't decide to be how I am or to like what I like. But I found the key to happiness is precisely to have a behavior in harmony with your personality and to eliminate all behavior that is contradicting your personality. (And that's why I'm not happy when I cannot be romantic.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-81705018441723262162016-03-26T18:25:20.476-07:002016-03-26T18:25:20.476-07:00Well, in Canada it's honky dory as evidenced h...Well, in Canada it's honky dory as evidenced here:<br /><br />http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2016/03/26/rob-green-syrian-refugee-elora-ontario_n_9549064.html<br /><br />Kumbaya!<br /><br />In other news, don't have raunchy sex with chicks lest you become a minor celeb, piss off said chicks and then they accuse you of rape 13 years later:<br /><br />http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/lydia-lovric/everyone-guilty-in-ghomeshi-trial_b_9543870.htmlsleazy fannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-66250663782420142552016-03-26T18:14:07.993-07:002016-03-26T18:14:07.993-07:00Personalities are mostly fixed by around age 6 or ...Personalities are mostly fixed by around age 6 or 7, but you can sandpaper around the margins a fair bit over time, if you consciously work on it. A good portion of modern cognitive behavioural therapy is based on making people aware of certain counterproductive behaviours and then altering them. It does work.Clarkehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01598503256501613406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-11220298403762580732016-03-26T18:03:00.404-07:002016-03-26T18:03:00.404-07:00Outside from their marketing material, in real lif...Outside from their marketing material, in real life most PUAs don't seem all that impressive. Anecdotally, a lot of the hot young women they claim to bang probably aren't that hot in reality, either. In university, the guy who had the highest lay count also lived by the saying that there were no ugly women, just not enough beer......<br /><br /> In Krauser's case, if he is unemployed and lives with his parents, it would take an awful lot of "game" to overcome that reality. All things being equal, a guy with money and his own place would likely get laid more often than the same guy with no money who lives with his parents, and I am not sure what "game" would change this.Clarkehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01598503256501613406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-9041258773968024932016-03-26T07:07:11.343-07:002016-03-26T07:07:11.343-07:00I have a special request, Aaron.
Can you give som...I have a special request, Aaron.<br /><br />Can you give some advice on how to find a girl to get married ?<br /><br />I am at 40+ lays and I lost all hope. There is not a single woman on this earth I would trust after seeing what I saw.<br /><br />Well, if I only listened to my heart I would have married 4 of these girls. But I'm glad I didn't listen to it ! Because it was a disaster in the end. I honestly thought I would share the rest of my life with them, but no...<br /><br />So, some women I don't trust them enough to make them my girlfriends and then I cannot even trust my girlfriends to make them my wife.<br /><br />I tend to see again 50% of the girls I fuck. But then 10 more % are just a very quick fling, so in the end I get 40% of the girls (that I fuck) that want to be my girlfriends. Not bad actually. But then you have to screen for personal compatibility and behavior and omg... <br /><br />First of all, no way I'm marrying a dominant woman ; for a shag, ok, for a relationship, no way. Then, no way I'm having a relationship with a girl that cheated on her boyfriend. Then, no way I'm having a relationship with a girl that doesn't want to have sex every time we meet. Then, no way I'm having a relationship with a girl that wants to pressure me into a marriage (or kids or whatever). Then, no way I'm having a relationship with a girl that is a (former) slut. Then, no way I'm having a relationship with a girl that acts like a child. Etc. You get my point.<br /><br />I don't want to be a player all my life, I don't want to go to the prostitutes and I don't want to marry an unreliable woman. So, how did you manage to find a wife ?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-91648381057255431692016-03-24T01:28:53.095-07:002016-03-24T01:28:53.095-07:00Gll offers some good office on some things obvious...Gll offers some good office on some things obviously. But yeah the goofy stuff on dong size and druggy crap I don't read any of that s%^* topics relating to exercising and weight loss getting over shyness etc I can relate too. Day game is a mixed bag of either opportunity or failure, just like night time. Whenever nerds discuss dating techniques it sounds like a political discussion. But anytime someone offers some bs advocacy for a quote "theory" I start laughing. I like dealing with facts and results. The RSD guys and others run pyramid schemes and invent homo language such as chode. Everything is a theory blah blah. Anyone can be manipulated by a theory. Point being I don't agree with anybody 100% on this topic. However I think Sleazy offers practical advice for anyone to get a good start who needs help. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-67056263289975958312016-03-22T11:18:09.345-07:002016-03-22T11:18:09.345-07:00Thanks for the response Lucretius! I will look up ...Thanks for the response Lucretius! I will look up the "sexy son hypothesis" out of curiosity. I figured that this post might be of interest to others because my impression from this blog is that nothing else matters other than working on Looks, Money, Status as long as you are normal, and not have aspergers and not say something stupid that f's it up. I do agree that LMS are the most important factors moreso than other things but I do suspect that having certain types of personalities or behaviors (other than just escalating and responding to IOI's) can increase your success (not to the PUA extreme of having a short obese guy date Supermodels of course with no Money or Status and soley his personality)with most but obviously not all women. I read Minimal Game and from my perspective in terms of personality/charisma development all it mentioned was to go to a therapist for "inner game" issues, confidence is something that is attributed to you by others for taking actions, and get out there and talk to more people. I do remember however that some researchers such as Steven Pinker believe that personalities are fixed so maybe there is not much that can be done to improve. Any thoughts on this subject will be appreciated. anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08136577705375370228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-73651984397479653602016-03-22T03:10:13.867-07:002016-03-22T03:10:13.867-07:00Don't get too caught up with GLL. You'll g...Don't get too caught up with GLL. You'll get all insecure about penis size. Also, he was caught using actresses in his videos so just view them as entertainment more than anything. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-33728736369290716152016-03-21T16:23:14.263-07:002016-03-21T16:23:14.263-07:00I strangely kinda liked his laid-back vibe. He sou...I strangely kinda liked his laid-back vibe. He sounds much better than in his other videos where he is trying too much to be a tough alpha/cool guy and is so caricatural.<br /><br />Hope someday he will understand he is much more attractive when he doesn't try to look cool.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-52397076358444302782016-03-21T15:47:28.908-07:002016-03-21T15:47:28.908-07:00Krauser now lives at home with his parents and is ...Krauser now lives at home with his parents and is unemployed according to his latest video. And people believe this guy gets laid? He claims hot, young women at that. <br /><br />http://krauserpua.com/2016/03/20/product-update-my-players-journey/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-2797829520330950512016-03-21T04:44:55.318-07:002016-03-21T04:44:55.318-07:00GLL is too "positive"/"optimistic&q...GLL is too "positive"/"optimistic" too. When you read his articles, you get the impression that we live in lala-land and girls are not going to try to manipulate you. <br /><br />Sometimes he also says too caricatural things that seem like he is promoting another kind of game (I mean instead of saying "do some DHV and the girl will jump your bone" he says "be a douchebag and the girl will jump your bone" or "follow my retention guide and 100% of the girls you fuck will become your fuck buddies") which kind of annoy me. He also pretends that if you can get a girl on the phone, then it means she will fuck you (and texts are for pussies). Well, I remember very clearly my PUA days and that was exactly what these weirdos were telling me.<br /><br />Also, I don't like his videos that are only a proof that he is sexually aggressive and nothing else. He wants to make people believe that just because he was able to bring a girl to his car (and eventually home), he fucked her. Well, first of all if you do daygame you already know that 99% of the girls have absolutely no time to come home with you right now and also if you successfully pulled some girls home, you know that it is absolutely not the case that all of them want to fuck you. I also had instant makeouts in the street and never heard of the girl again. I eventually stopped doing daygame because it was such a waste of time and focused on method that were actually getting me a good ROI. But if you go on GLL (forum), there is a cult about daygame and if you get girls outside of daygame, people mock you and say "it doesn't count, bro !"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-19182134356837027742016-03-21T02:05:34.566-07:002016-03-21T02:05:34.566-07:00This is nothing new. The evolutionary concept behi...This is nothing new. The evolutionary concept behind this preference in selection by females is the "sexy son hypothesis", by the way. Merely reading such a study isn't really enough. It's even better to know, why such choices constitute a tangible evolutionary advantage.<br />Furthermore it also must be mentioned, that some females are prone to avoiding such men even during their fertile phase. The specific biological conflicts expressing themselves in such kind of behaviour are also very interesting...Lucretius Carushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11401874110101292496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-25584673811550943952016-03-20T18:13:07.320-07:002016-03-20T18:13:07.320-07:00UCLA paper showing that confidence, arrogance and ...UCLA paper showing that confidence, arrogance and dominance plays a supporting role for men in the flirting process during certain phases in a woman's cycle?<br /><br />http://www.sscnet.ucla.edu/comm/haselton/unify_uploads/files/gangestad%20and%20haselton%20current%20opinion%20published.pdf<br /><br />The importance of behavioral features?<br /><br />Whereas preference shifts of major interest early on<br />concerned male physical features (e.g., facial masculinity;<br />scent), several recent studies have focused on women’s<br />reactions to men’s behavior and dispositions. Previous<br />research had found that women find male confidence,<br /><br />even a degree of arrogance, more sexually appealing<br />during the fertile phase (e.g., [15,16]). Recent studies<br />replicate and extend that work, finding not only that<br />fertile-phase women are more sexually attracted to ‘sexy<br />cad’ or behaviorally masculine men (relative to ‘good dad’<br />or less masculine men), but also that, during the fertile<br />phase, women are more likely to flirt or engage with such<br />men [17<br />,18].<br /><br />Females of a variety of species, including primates [2],<br />prefer dominant or high ranking males during the fertile<br />phase of their cycles. anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08136577705375370228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-1809309797210450332016-03-20T14:15:27.211-07:002016-03-20T14:15:27.211-07:00@anon: Congrats, dude!
If you really wish to see t...@anon: Congrats, dude!<br />If you really wish to see through things even more closely, read up for a solid knowledge on evolutionary biology at some point of your journey. I really cannot stress this strongly enough. Everything you're gonna experience & encounter, everything Sleazy and Novy say & write will just make so much more sense to you, you won't regret it. It does make that much of a difference. (just my 5 ct.)<br /><br />GLL has its drawbacks. I'd recommend not reading too much of his stuff, occasionally he cannot abstain from overcomplicating and burying you under his drivel. Yes, girls are evolutionary programmed to select guys with big(ger) dicks as sex-partners if need be. But if you're the one to step though a window of opportunity opening up right next to you while some particularly-huge-cock-bloke just doesn't, then your sausage will suffice just as fine...Lucretius Carushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11401874110101292496noreply@blogger.com