tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post1538077985002159593..comments2023-05-17T08:14:10.789-07:00Comments on Men, Women, and Society: The Open Thread: July 2015Aaron Sleazyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06704230661761052919noreply@blogger.comBlogger52125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-51209021110295348062015-08-02T07:03:36.033-07:002015-08-02T07:03:36.033-07:00Here is something different for a change of tone: ...Here is something different for a change of tone: Prepare to meet Stacy Jean, a skilled/passionate artists, mother of three and beautiful women --> https://instagram.com/1bite2xshy/?hl=de.<br /><br />This blog got a little too depressing for my taste, though I still enjoy the articles! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-15328461973213673382015-08-02T05:28:45.243-07:002015-08-02T05:28:45.243-07:00I found this : http://www.pnas.org/content/97/22/1...I found this : http://www.pnas.org/content/97/22/12385.full.pdf<br /><br />Very interesting.<br /><br />In a nutshell : when they count prostitutes in surveys about sexual partners, suddenly the mean for men and women are equal.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-42110062127608447582015-07-31T16:30:02.416-07:002015-07-31T16:30:02.416-07:00I used to like Jurassic Park (1993) and The Lost W...I used to like Jurassic Park (1993) and The Lost World (1996). With JP III the frenchise really started to take a nosedive. Anyhow, I spared myself the latest installment, no purely because of but maybe to a certain extent due to the fact, that it depicts a female character running for her dear life away from all kinds of dinos WARING HIGH HEELS ALL THE F***IN TIME.<br />At least that's what I've been told.<br /><br />And now look at this => https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_RZi6NCuLbQ<br />***Jurassic Park: High Heels Edition (Parody)***<br /><br />LOLLucretius Carushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11401874110101292496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-22216146792804805512015-07-26T09:21:25.599-07:002015-07-26T09:21:25.599-07:00Well there are various types of pua, there is the ...Well there are various types of pua, there is the guys who sell bootcamps etc. They try to get your money first.<br /><br />I think roosh (and I don't think he really said he has had trouble with women, just that recently he is in a slump, and that caused him not to try. (probably for all his supposed mastery, he still needs to put the same hours (and perhaps more, due to age, and reputation) in)).<br /><br />His sites are just very very good at getting angry readers and writers, who pride themselves on being 'logical' while making one logical fallacy after another.<br /><br />Think that is why he is rebranding himself as a neomasculine figurehead. And moved away from pua writings. And yeah, think tehre is more money/followers in antifeminism, (and the other needs/things anon before lazylife mentioned) etcAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-70373992632861518692015-07-26T09:16:12.740-07:002015-07-26T09:16:12.740-07:00There are some health benefits to being overweight...There are some health benefits to being overweight. But, these are only if you are over 65/70 years of age. (Do not have citation, sorry).<br /><br />My personal beliefs around the matter is that this is due to more muscle mass, people who are heavier, also have a little bit more muscle (due to carrying the weight around, and well, always getting enough protein). I think that the increased health benefits are due to the larger stocks of muscles.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-77646731673704261172015-07-26T05:30:24.153-07:002015-07-26T05:30:24.153-07:00@Alek
I just noticed a recent post on the black p...@Alek<br /><br />I just noticed a recent post on the black pill where you commented on RSD. I'm not familiar with them, but know what teach is bullshit. How do you think they've managed to stand the test of time while a company like Lovesystems is almost dead? I read before that Lovesystems hasn't changed their material EVER, so that could be part of the problem. Just seems weird that RSD is just as big, if not bigger, and one of their competitors is basically extinct. Perhaps Savoy just got lazy and thought the well would never run dry? I know it was pretty dumb of him to claim that Lovesystems instructors could GUARANTEE that you would be able to pickup strippers after a bootcamp with Cajun(I think it Cajun?). simpleguyskillshttp://simpleguyskills.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-66435972531089840872015-07-25T06:49:56.321-07:002015-07-25T06:49:56.321-07:00If he named the video "morbidly obese people&...If he named the video "morbidly obese people" then he would have a point. But since its named "overweight people"... I disagree with this video.<br /><br />While there are no genetic differences in terms of energy, there are huge differences in fullness, stress-handling, satiety hormones etc etc.<br /><br />In practical terms. Yes, an overweight person can look the same as a "naturally skinny person" if he eats the exact same amount of food/exercise. But one will feel starved and out of energy, whereas the other will feel full.<br /><br />Yeah if someone's morbidly obese, its probably laziness. Its not true about being overweight. That's like saying all non-charismatic men are "lazy". Alek Novyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727239708216696902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-44087799895577606072015-07-25T00:01:42.974-07:002015-07-25T00:01:42.974-07:00It's really incredible how people would rather...It's really incredible how people would rather accept the comfortable lie rather than a more uncomfortable truth. Just came across this video which was immediately labeled as controversial. IMO, this guy is 100% spot on.<br /><br />https://youtu.be/JXDEe_bg9lMAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-45554361272518435212015-07-24T15:29:56.265-07:002015-07-24T15:29:56.265-07:00@Alek: Ah, okay! Now I get it. Thank you very much...@Alek: Ah, okay! Now I get it. Thank you very much for the clarification!<br />Sorry for misinterpreting you!<br /><br />BrentAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-36839011977502287282015-07-24T12:53:23.961-07:002015-07-24T12:53:23.961-07:00Well, fellas! That's a lot of valubale feedbac...Well, fellas! That's a lot of valubale feedback to my comments! I realy appreciate!<br /><br />@The Plague Doctor: <br />Bar Bar surley coined this juice-squeeze-saying for me! To many men are oblivious to this whole return of investment-thing when it comes to women/mating.<br /><br />"I agree, so I think you will find these posts by blogger Advocatus Diaboli interesting. This is one of my favorite collections of MGTOW-related writings, and was quite an eye-opener for me." Thanks very much for sharing! I like the guy's blunt no-BS-straight-foward attitude! Condensed wisdom! No fluff! (I think Marco also has him in his blogroll.)<br /><br />@Lazy Life:<br /><br />Just a few questions about israeli chicks: I often heard they are tuff as nails and I always had the impression female obisity is not such big of an issue with (young) Israeli women.<br />Is feminism a big thing (like in europe/north america) in Israel?<br />Israeli women are also liable to military service, aren't they?<br />I'm asking because I get chills imagiening some shit-crazy feminist bitch, who recived shooting lessons and Krav Maga training! LOL! What a nightmarish thought! :D<br /><br />Do you think your female soldiers do their part or is it -like always- the men that have to deal with the real dangerous, bone-breaking and soul crushing tasks, when shit hits the fan? (Let me guess ;)<br />Would you say that girls who did serve in the military are at least somewhat more mature than women of the same age from other Western/westernized countries?<br /><br />"either they are scared of the OTHER PEOPLE opinions<br />either u are make moves too fast or too slow, or they are scared of some other bullshit scenerio, they lose interest c ause of it."<br />A true pain in the ass indeed! Grow up, girlies!<br /><br />"This one is really crappy because i cant tell before hand what chick will be like that. and then i get shit stomped when this happens.(...)<br />this kills my mood for even bothering. it is a complete turn off."<br />Feel you, man! Same goes for me!<br /><br />"i say do as marco does, go fuck some hot prostitutes." Smart choice! I agree! :)<br /><br />@Marco: "No pussy is worth too much hassle, particularly because boredomn quickly sets in anyway." I wish I had internalised this 10 - 13 yeras ago! All this years- wasted to a certain degree. Sigh! But better late than never.<br /><br />Furthermore: Thanks for hinting at your post! I read it, I liked it and I left you a comment :)<br /><br />BrentAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-83468957801619085962015-07-24T01:46:33.541-07:002015-07-24T01:46:33.541-07:00(PART 2:) Brent:Correct me if I'm wrong, pleas...(PART 2:) <b>Brent:</b><i>Correct me if I'm wrong, please, because I don't want to spread BS about you, but even through you gained a very good instinct in regards to which chicks are worthy of your efforts, you nonetheless quite often (or even more often than not?) have to spend a rather large amount of time to lay a chick due to the reasons you stated in your comment above, don't you? </i><br /><br />Actually no, compared to the average guy I am "spoiled" and don't want to invest "any time". When I complain about women playing games and wanting me to invest time - I'm not saying that i'm ACTUALLY accepting the deal. <br /><br />Also I'm not comparing myself to the average guy who spends 20-30 hours on facebook chat or phone, goes on 7 seven dates and spends 10 hours on the phone before he even gets a fucking first kiss. I'm comparing myself to the top 0.1% of guys who I'm fortunate to have befriended a few.<br /><br />Since I KNOW that a woman CAN AND DOES know she can hookup much earlier. I see any delay as her playing games. Does that make sense? I see chicks constantly hookup with guys in just 5-10 minutes of conversation, meeting a guy for the second in their life.<br /><br />Then with another guy they pretend they need 7 dates to decide. This is the game playing part I'm talking about.<br /><br /><b>Here are some facts</b><br /><br />- In the past 7(?) years I haven't taken a single phone number from a single woman. Not a single one. <br /><br />- Have not been on a single date... not one single date (I just go places where I'll be anyway, and some chick I've met somewhere might come along alone or friends, i go to places where I have status and dozens of friends, so she (and or her friends) tags along, no formal dates)<br /><br />- Communication pre hookup has never been more than 2-3 lines exchanged on facebook chat or text (just letting them know where I'll be with my friends, location, time, that's it)<br /><br /><i>But how do you cope with the fact that you still have to work to hook up with chicks that are -despite how hot/stunning they may be- intelectually, personality/courage wise and in regards of life experince and the ability to deal with (emotional) stress miles and miles and miles below your level. I don't want to insult these girls, please, don't get me wrong.</i><br /><br />I think you (and the others) misunderstood what I am being asked to do for BEING what I actually do. I DON'T ACTUALLY accept these games at this point in life. I am asked to play these games, I refuse... She might later on in my life turn up again and decide to drop the games and be more direct, or she might lose out on me forever... whatever. I refuse to accept a shitty deal. I don't ACTUALLY accept these deals.<br /><br />The reason that I KNOW that you can bang the women who play these games (act hard to get) if you go through, is because I TESTED IT FOR A PERIOD of time.<br /><br />I just had a period where (to prove the idiotic theory wrong) I did go through with a massive amount of these game players, and banged them, proving the feminist bullshit theory wrong.<br /><br />I have no intention of doing that as a way of life. It's stupid, its unfair (to the man). Its just that I flip out and lose it whenever a feminist shill comes on here and says "women don't play games, never play hard to get, ALL interested women communicate unambigiously and clearly and make it easy for you"<br /><br />Sane person: "yes they do, most of them do play hard to get, play games and communicate ambiguously"<br /><br />Feminist: "Well, they must find you ugly, because only a woman who finds you ugly would ever communicate ambiguously".<br /><br />That's what I'm ranting against. Don't misunderstand it as me recommending it as a way of life "you should accept women playing hard to get and persist through".<br /><br />I'm just saying its not true a woman finds you utterly unfuckable and ugly if she plays hard to get. That's a feminist bullying theory invented to nudge guys toward dating uggos.Alek Novyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727239708216696902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-7888728966807504422015-07-24T01:42:39.992-07:002015-07-24T01:42:39.992-07:00(PART 1:) I should probably commit to not post ran...(PART 1:) <b>I should probably commit to not post rants when I don't have the time to write proper.</b> Which is why its such an entangled mess of inclarity.<br /><br /><b>Brent:</b> <i>Fascinating observation! I'm baffled! 0_o<br />you busted your ass to get a certain amount of flirting experience to asses with somewhat certainty which chicks you should focused on.</i><br /><br />Actually as I said in the comments discussing Aaron's book, this part i'm the least successful at. I have friends who are amazing at this. Personally I'm only "somewhat better than the average guy". I'm <b>nowhere near</b> Aaron's level or my friend's levels in terms of super-reading ability. I'm merely observant and have noticed it is a "skill", i.e. something you can develop. I never quite developed it to super high levels myself. You'll notice I always say "you can develop it", I never said "I developed it".<br /><br />The only thing I am really "exceptional" at is the ability to escalate without giving a crap. That means **if** I hit on 20-30 random chicks, I can bang one just by virtue of the fact that I won't ever not make a move when she wants me to. (notice the If before you misread, that's not how I life my life now, I'm just saying if I DID hit on chicks indiscriminately, that's what I can get)<br />Alek Novyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727239708216696902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-71204154874030673292015-07-23T12:47:58.671-07:002015-07-23T12:47:58.671-07:00@ Brent:
Hey Brent, I had the good fortune to make...@ Brent:<br />Hey Brent, I had the good fortune to make an interesting personal observation recently. Maybe you might wanna check this out:<br /><br />http://whatswrongwiththeseguys.blogspot.de/2015/07/eine-interessante-beobachtung.htmlLucretius Carushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11401874110101292496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-77801322432894573042015-07-23T11:59:04.118-07:002015-07-23T11:59:04.118-07:00As much as I always appreciate Novy's succinct...As much as I always appreciate Novy's succinct observations and contributions, I must say that having to go through all that kind of female testing hassle is just exactly that: unnerving hassle. To me sex is only fun, if it is more or less effortless, and natural. Anything substantially above that level and the girl just becomes uninteresting to me and I stop being horny for her and soon have forgot about her altogether.<br />No pussy is worth too much hassle, particularly because boredomn quickly sets in anyway.Lucretius Carushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11401874110101292496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-55437662628476878962015-07-23T11:20:05.034-07:002015-07-23T11:20:05.034-07:00there is of course one type of interaction i parti...there is of course one type of interaction i particularly hate,<br />either the chick likes you and lose interest or , she doesnt but want to get some<br />attention once she knows you are business, she drops on u.<br /><br />anyway the chick expresses interest and then at one point, she becomes cold, and starts to ignore you.<br />this one is really crappy because i cant tell before hand what chick will be like that. and then i get shit stomped when this happens.<br />bitch please be cold and and ignore me from the start.<br />there is also chicks who likes u but behaves cold as stone from the start.<br />this kills my mood for even bothering. it is a complete turn off.<br />i say do as marco does, go fuck some hot prostitutes.LazyLifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17166776768659209547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-61790642861924063942015-07-23T11:07:42.947-07:002015-07-23T11:07:42.947-07:00Heartiste goes empirical:
https://heartiste.wordp...Heartiste goes empirical:<br /><br />https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/07/23/field-test-the-maximum-alpha-male-mode-walk/<br /><br />LOLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-91340599336371111632015-07-23T11:07:07.109-07:002015-07-23T11:07:07.109-07:00Brent , I was born in Belarus, and live in Israel....Brent , I was born in Belarus, and live in Israel.<br /><br />16 is the age of consent, and i think in Germany it is 16 as well.<br /><br />i currently work at an odd job at an amusement park, there is a lot of chicks<br />who are 16-19 years old, most of them live a bit far, few dont, but most of those who dont either ugly or not interested in me.<br /><br />how ever chicks are consistently suck a lot of attention, i tell you because chicks<br />who liked me would refuse me.<br />since i dont really would like to engage in chasing, i drop them but.<br />either they are scared of the OTHER PEOPLE opinions<br />either u are make moves too fast or too slow, or they are scared of some other bullshit scenerio, they lose interest c ause of it.<br /><br />i am certainly surprised to ogle a chick to find out she "i have b(bullshit)bf<br />" while she close to me and smiles, since i ask her do you want to meet up.<br />of couse she says " idont know" and blahblah.<br />untill u hit upon a chick that dont bullshit you, you waste alot of energy its tiring.<br />whats the point?<br /><br />i certainly start to think that 16-18 girls are full of shit, scared of too many scenerios and thus lose interest easily becasue of that.<br />or you just need to chase them alot untill those scenerios start to be irrelevent,<br />i say fuck this shit. i just ogle them sometimes becasue i am at work and find myself free to do whatever i want.lol.<br />LazyLifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17166776768659209547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-34133192855209792002015-07-23T10:19:14.238-07:002015-07-23T10:19:14.238-07:00no, man pua first of all is about sucking money ou...no, man pua first of all is about sucking money out of you.<br />by selling the fantasy you made a point in the end of the message.<br />LazyLifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17166776768659209547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-49934160515807927372015-07-23T06:56:23.130-07:002015-07-23T06:56:23.130-07:00Alek, it seems you are describing a different situ...Alek, it seems you are describing a different situation. These girls aren't faking disinterest, they are assessing your sincerity for a long term relationship. I'm guessing you aren't meeting these girls in clubs for one night stands. If you are, then they are still trying to find out your sincerity, which is only relevant for long term. Maybe they aren't attracted enough for short term. <br /><br />There does not appear to be any deception involved either. These girls, as you describe them, seen concerned about your long term intentions with them and are quite upfront abo<br /><br />I agree that women are kind to "naive" men. That has been my experience, which goes against prevailing dogma that women are especially harsh to "nice" guys. It's also why I recommend that you yourself don't put on any airs. <br /><br />Your explanations seem less convincing to me. Cause and effect are hard to disentangle.<br /><br />You might be conveying a very insincere vibe, and putting on inauthentic airs of some kind, triggering skepticism in these girls.<br /><br />Your friend might simply be a much more naturally sincere and authentic person than you who doesn't put on airs. <br /><br />Either way is only really relevant for long term. <br /><br />As you say social psychology has documented that women test your sincerity for long term commitment. I'm don't see how this is relevant to one night stand or the question of whet women fake disinterest or create pointless obstacles. <br /><br />Of course every interaction is different between two people, and trust is establishedat different rates, but overall if your are hitting on your level and are yourself not putting on airs, it should be "generally" smooth going. <br /><br />If anyone is having so much trouble and effort that is making them bitter and unhappy, something is wrong. The amount of effort described by anon above makes no sense. It's not supposed to be like that for most guys hitting on their level. It's not for me. <br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-42746825499235722902015-07-23T02:00:22.541-07:002015-07-23T02:00:22.541-07:00@Brent,
"but don't I have some kind of p...@Brent,<br /><br />"<i>but don't I have some kind of point?</i>"<br /><br />Your point is that modern women have almost nothing to offer a man these days, especially if one compares it to the amount of effort and risks a male must endure; or, as Barbarossaaaa puts it, "The juice ain't worth the squeeze". <br /><br />I agree, so I think you will find <a href="https://dissention.wordpress.com/category/escorts/?order=asc" rel="nofollow">these posts by blogger Advocatus Diaboli</a> interesting. This is one of my favorite collections of MGTOW-related writings, and was quite an eye-opener for me. The Plague Doctornoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-71075575641839425552015-07-21T10:27:32.344-07:002015-07-21T10:27:32.344-07:00PART 3
Once again, sorry if I sound like a bitter,...PART 3<br />Once again, sorry if I sound like a bitter, deluded, soure grape with a god complex that spent to much time browsing roosh-Vs and other fuckards drivle, but don't I have some kind of point?<br /><br />I would be perfectly fine to engage in somewhat risky behaviour to do maybe like 60-70% percent of the work, but I feel anything less than doing 90% of the work is almost certanly a road to celibacy these days.<br /><br />I just don't feel much of an incentive to give that much, especially since the few times I fucked a chick -even if she was good looking- I felt nothing close to sexual arousel.<br /><br />Anyways, thanks for the chat, fellas! :)<br /><br />Brent<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-44781962613111349672015-07-21T10:26:43.366-07:002015-07-21T10:26:43.366-07:00PART2
But however good looking (and even pleasent...PART2 <br />But however good looking (and even pleasent to be around) they may be, they are (almost certainly) much less worthy of a guy like you than vice versa, if you know what I want to say.<br />A guy like you -absoulutly spoken- allways has to himself short even if he hits only on the most beautiful women, because -although some girls might be better looking than him- the amount of girls that are a match for him intelectually and personality wise is basically zero.<br /><br />I mean I certanly don't bring nearly as much to the table as you do (far from it), but I certanly bring more to the table than at least many of the 6s I hit on (and I felt that were -at least somewhat- into me*! ) and still I'm supposed to do more than meet them half way. That's absurd!<br /><br />*Crucial point! I know women have there types they go for and I can only<br />expect a tiny fraction of females to consider me their type and to prefer me to other men that are her type and I furthermore can only expect a fraction of those women to be avalible to me. At this point I'm bitching soley about females, that are sexually attracted AND availble to me (and prefer me to other guys that are their type) and that are "within my league" and aware of being in my league. (At this point I'm not even bitching about girls in my league and attracted to me but not hooking up with me because they -falsley- feel to high up above me to act on their attraction towards me.)<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-3033474457551115452015-07-21T10:25:44.347-07:002015-07-21T10:25:44.347-07:00PART 1
Thanks for the intresting chat, Lads! :)
@...PART 1<br />Thanks for the intresting chat, Lads! :)<br /><br />@LazyLife: You know the saying:<br />You've got to eat the grape before it turns into a rasin ;)<br />Enjoy!<br />By the way: which country are you from if I may ask? You mentioned once that the age of consent in your contry is pretty low, if I don't mistake you for someone else.<br /><br />@Alek: <br />"To give you my personal experience. The first 30 chicks I hooked up with (whether lays or just bjs/makeouts), it was zero drama, zero games... I show interest, she shows interest back (or not), we go hookup (bang or bj or makeout).<br /><br />However, at one point, everything flipped. Once I got the confidence of being a guy who's "above average"... all of a sudden all women started testing me. They all accused me of being a player and made me jump through endless hoops."<br /><br />Fascinating observation! I'm baffled! 0_o<br /><br />From what I understood from the many comments you left on this and various other blogs you busted your ass to get a certain amount of flirting experience to asses with somewhat certainty which chicks you should focused on.<br /><br />Correct me if I'm wrong, please, because I don't want to spread BS about you, but even through you gained a very good instinct in regards to which chicks are worthy of your efforts, you nonetheless quite often (or even more often than not?) have to spend a rather large amount of time to lay a chick due to the reasons you stated in your comment above, don't you? <br /><br />I really admire your dedication, your will power, your stamina and how you used your inteligence to figure all this stuff out. I admire how you built an amazing social life/life style and how you shaped your body to almost Adonis-like perfection and I hope you will continue reaping the rewards of your herculean efforts for many many decades to come.<br /><br />But how do you cope with the fact that you still have to work to hook up with chicks that are -despite how hot/stunning they may be- intelectually, personality/courage wise and in regards of life experince and the ability to deal with (emotional) stress miles and miles and miles below your level. I don't want to insult these girls, please, don't get me wrong.<br /><br /> Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-36200633751817951612015-07-21T03:27:30.381-07:002015-07-21T03:27:30.381-07:00"Lots of guys have reported that girls play g...<i>"Lots of guys have reported that girls play games and make it hard for the"</i><br /><br />Also, don't try to make it out as if this is something that came out of some dudes on the internet. This has been part of common-sense, common knowledge for THOUSANDS of years.<br /><br />Anthropology and social psychology (basically all social science departments except gender studies) very well document that FEMALES mate by playing games and put males through courtship (chasing) and force males into proving themselves and how "serious" they are.<br /><br />You know what else? Its true of all fucking mammals as well. So don't play that lame feminist shill game where "oh its just a bunch of bitter guys on the internetz invented this idea, women are super clear, unambigious and direct to normal guys teheheh"Alek Novyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727239708216696902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-35166887738458232382015-07-21T00:07:47.199-07:002015-07-21T00:07:47.199-07:00"Lots of guys have reported that girls play g...<i>"Lots of guys have reported that girls play games and make it hard for them, but I have to be honest and say my experience differs in certain crucial ways."</i><br /><br />Here's where it gets interesting... Want to have your mind blown? Women ACTUALLY often play games (test you) in order to prevent being "hurt" (pumped & dump) despite being interested.<br /><br />To give you my personal experience. The first 30 chicks I hooked up with (whether lays or just bjs/makeouts), it was zero drama, zero games... I show interest, she shows interest back (or not), we go hookup (bang or bj or makeout).<br /><br />However, at one point, everything flipped. Once I got the confidence of being a guy who's "above average"... all of a sudden all women started testing me. They all accused me of being a player and made me jump through endless hoops. <br /><br />[you have no idea how annoying/flattering it is to constantly be accused of having 20 girlfriends... even if you're busy working on business and haven't left the house in the past 3 weeks] That literally happens to me these days when I suggest to chicks to go back to my place, they ask me "so why don't you invite one of your other 20 girls, why me", and I'm like thinking "bitch I haven't had any in 3 weeks, whatcha talking bout".<br /><br />When I was nervous and inexperienced, they played no games, did no tests. It was "me interested, you interest, go".<br /><br />But also, my buddy who is amazing (top 0.01%) gets no games/tests either. So there's this weird middleground where she can tell you're not NAIVE, so she tests you. But you're not so super-charismatic and experienced that you can skip through it.<br /><br />So there's this weird bad middleground. If you're completely naive you don't get tested, in fact girls are kind of nice and forgiving. And they're also great if you're really good (like my friend).<br /><br />I'm nowhere near my friend's level. This guy is like hollywood level charisma, been with hundreds of girls this guy. He's really good at getting girls to feel as if though they have a chance of being his next girlfriend. So they just act spontaneously and go, no testing.<br /><br />Me? They test the crap out of me, because I have 0000% anxiety about escalation, making moves, but i'm nowhere near as good at relating/making a connection like this guy. <br /><br />Now this is just one example of a SCENARIO WHERE WOMEN play games/test you. Its one of HUNDREDS. And unfortunately, a lot of it is complex and subtle. There's no easy way to tell one guy is having the fortune of not being tested and having clear communication from the women who are interested.<br /><br />I WISH the answers were as easy as "you must be ugly if women test you, go for uglier women"... Unfortunately, its not. <br /><br />IF YOU PERSONALLY are lucky, and have the right set of characteristics to not get tested, good... But don't forget that luck might run out... and don't try to generalize this bullshit to other guys. <br /><br />Like these fucking idiot shrills who keep coming here and saying "if you get tested by 6s, you must be a 2"... Which is the most moronic, bullying, soul destroying crap ever. It's just utter non-sense (most often its said by women pretending to be men, or virgins with no real world experience). <br /><br />Especially when these same guys KNOW they have banged 8s, and they go and test this BS and find twos TEST THEM EVEN MORE, and eights are MORE DIRECT. So the theory is complete oversimplified bs.<br /><br />Alek Novyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727239708216696902noreply@blogger.com