tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post6645290557708863586..comments2023-05-17T08:14:10.789-07:00Comments on Men, Women, and Society: Clubs seem to be having a harder timeAaron Sleazyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06704230661761052919noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-86258165497012514122016-10-02T04:31:12.227-07:002016-10-02T04:31:12.227-07:00I have had access in the past to many private PUA ...I have had access in the past to many private PUA forums with big name PUAs. I've seen the kinds of chicks they drool over and call "models". They're sixes with tons of makeup/slutty clothing basically. (i can accept that by someone's taste they might be as high as sevens, but no more)<br /><br />To me a model is a chick who can make a living off of her looks. To PUAs a girl is a model/nine, if she knows how to put on tight clothing and a lot of makeup.Alek Novyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727239708216696902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-10165007598494096872016-10-02T03:27:46.010-07:002016-10-02T03:27:46.010-07:00I just skimmed it. Overall, it seemed way too try ...I just skimmed it. Overall, it seemed way too try hard, and full of game fallacies. No, a girl does not get hot for you because you don't show any interest. I had to laugh when I read that said girl walked in with two "AFCs" who looked like MMA fighters and in the end chose him because, apparently, he was so unmanly and disinterested in sex.Aaron Sleazyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06704230661761052919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-90744043413731973322016-10-02T03:22:27.002-07:002016-10-02T03:22:27.002-07:00That's a good point, which I hadn't consid...That's a good point, which I hadn't considered. The mainstream crowd is certainly good at ruining the vibe of a place.Aaron Sleazyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06704230661761052919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-29968289053081948942016-10-01T12:05:31.455-07:002016-10-01T12:05:31.455-07:00I think another factor contributing to this is all...I think another factor contributing to this is all the social discovery sites (like Yelp), which ends meaning places get outed much sooner, which leads to a lot of mainstream people rushing to the place, and killing the vibe so to speak. <br /><br />I feel the real action these days is really at house parties.Johnnyhttp://anti-pua-johnny.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-78538011047901335002016-09-30T09:50:26.498-07:002016-09-30T09:50:26.498-07:00I think you guys should a story about seddit, r/se...I think you guys should a story about seddit, r/seduction; I just recently discovered one of the mods/important people there got in trouble recently with the law. They encourage all this club/game bullshit...<br /><br />Like here is a story that I have a hard time believing in, that I came across there recently:<br />https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/nzzzz/fr_new_years_in_times_square_hb10_fclose_18yo/<br /><br />I didn't know CS guys were, or skinny nerds that were only average looking, studying CS were pulling 10 models aspiring to be victoria secret angels.....<br /><br />Can you see through the bullshit here, Alek, like really easily?DanNeutronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14645303886079656399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-38477760534480201902016-09-27T03:11:44.793-07:002016-09-27T03:11:44.793-07:00Great comment!
I didn't know that Fabric has ...Great comment!<br /><br />I didn't know that Fabric has closed, too. To me drug and alcohol related incidents often used as a pretense to close premises. The same happened to Madame Jojo's and others. If you want to crack down on drugs, you better target the source.Aaron Sleazyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06704230661761052919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-35492041679265069922016-09-27T00:42:47.096-07:002016-09-27T00:42:47.096-07:00One of the big clubs in london has closed down rec...One of the big clubs in london has closed down recently, Fabric a mainstream club, due to two 18 years dying from overdosing. So one cause would be the crack down on drugs.<br /><br />Problem with clubs in london, is a london thing. London is one of the most expensive cities in the world, and most expensive in uk. Going out for a typical night out would probably set some one back around 50 to 100£ if you go to bars, drink, club fee, uber back, food etc. That is a lot of money, considering how the majority of londoners will not have the disposable income (After rent and bills) from their wages. <br /><br />I think the trend is not to have proper clubs, but to have bars/pubs which turn in to a clubs. One, the cost is cheaper for the oweners, and two, there is not as much hassle or cost for the public. So people are just being more selective in terms of their money.<br /><br />This will get worse, as I think more and more clubs are starting to enforce a no drunk entry. So if you have been drinking a fair bit before going to a club, which everyoene does, then you will not be allowed in. Mainly for the club to get more people to pay the extortionate prices for drinks when inside. <br /><br />Most of the times, people will go out to bar, and head back to some ones home and party there, and if there is small or free bar/club locally, will head there for a bit or stay at the house party. It is cheaper, people feel safer, drugs are easier to get, peopl know each other (well everyone is vouched for), and it is easier to pick up girls.<br /><br />caniAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-74504583080395594722016-09-23T07:33:02.713-07:002016-09-23T07:33:02.713-07:00I'd say that guys waking up to "pussy bei...I'd say that guys waking up to "pussy being overrated" & "porn is better than most chicks" are a huge factor too. <br /><br />It isn't just that girls dressed slutty to get male attention. But guys also went to clubs so they can see sluttily dressed girls as well. With HD porn that's no longer that special... not worth dressing up, waiting in line for, and paying a fee in order to see it. <br /><br />Remember, most club guys in the history of clubs never got a single lay. The guys getting laid were always the minority. Most guys went for the factor of "omg i get to see a slutty-dressed chick in real life". With of course a faint hope of maybe potentially something happening by freak chance.<br /><br />Alek Novyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727239708216696902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-48529346394201384912016-09-22T22:02:14.596-07:002016-09-22T22:02:14.596-07:00Other Aaron (Aaron Clarey) agrees with you.<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iOO8Fl-XrDg" rel="nofollow">Other Aaron (Aaron Clarey) agrees with you.</a><br />The Plague Doctornoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-59032664300429990182016-09-22T15:17:31.253-07:002016-09-22T15:17:31.253-07:00Interesting remarks! Since clubs house much more p...Interesting remarks! Since clubs house much more people than bars, and there is arguably no drastic increase in the number of bars, it seems safe to conclude that people are going out less often.<br /><br />Yes, I also think that Tinder is a corroborating factor of the decline of clubs, essentially cutting out the middle man. However, you will find plenty of women on all dating sites who only want to feed off the attention they are getting.<br /><br />I had a look at that article. This hypothesis seems to be the most convincing one:<br />"(1) many American Millennials, if they marry, marry late, and many are unemployed and some even living with their parents (Twenge et al. 2016, p. 5), and so have reduced social opportunities for sex;"<br /><br />The Great Recession hit a lot of graduates hard. It is still not over, as, for instance, is witnessed by the boom of service sector jobs that don't pay proper wages. Of course your dating prospects are much reduced if you go from being Frat-Chad to wearing a Starbucks or McDonald's uniform.Aaron Sleazyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06704230661761052919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1830949294679547966.post-40342452026075791642016-09-22T15:11:15.629-07:002016-09-22T15:11:15.629-07:00Hi Aaron
What about the statistical 'binning...Hi Aaron <br /><br />What about the statistical 'binning' between clubs versus, say, bars? Some corollary data on this would be revealing. If there are also less bars, then something hugely significant is going on. <br /><br />Regarding social media, I think Tinder would probably have more to do with the decline than "fishing for likes"; I'm speculating, however. I've also heard that in some Western countries alcohol consumption has declined since the 80s. This could well be another reason.<br /><br />Lastly, Id like to hear your take on this (from an interesting blog, btw) <br />http://socialdemocracy21stcentury.blogspot.al/2016/09/the-rise-of-sexual-inactivity-amongst.html?m=1Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com