Tuesday, January 26, 2016

Mass Migration, Divorce Courts, and the Systematic Subjugation of Betas (Part II)

In part I of this article we took a look at how 'betas'. in countries that are being flooded by unskilled illegal immigrants. are going to pay through the nose in order to ensure that the newly arrived and rapidly expanding minority will have their basic needs met. In fact, in many instances they are treated better than the natives. For instance, in Sweden they have the right to free dental care, which natives only have until they turn 18. In Germany they are financially better off than people living off welfare, and get other benefits on top, like free public transport. Just think of everything people were told that there was no money available for: health care, kindergartens, schools, universities, infrastructure, pensions. Yet, now all of a sudden Germany now apparently has billions available to shelter, clothe, and feed about one million illegal migrants who arrived in 2015, and the next million is expected to arrive this year.

Sunday, January 3, 2016

"So what's the strategy here? Pretend you're not a nerd?"

This is a follow up to the post "Reader Question: How does a nerdy introvert meet hot women?", which led to a pretty good discussion. Unfortunately, my original suspicion only got reaffirmed, namely that the person asking this question is only looking for a quick fix. Instead of trying to change himself, so that people around him would react differently to him, he seems to have a hard time letting go of the idea that with a few cosmetic fixes all problems will be gone. This was perfectly captured in reader "smashthestate" asking,

"So what's the strategy here? Pretend you're not a nerd?"

Let that sink in for a moment, as it points toward a very fundamental issue.

The Open Thread: January 2016

Since I get a relatively high number of comments that are tangential to the articles, I'd like to try to move those parts of the conversation to the monthly 'Open Thread'.

In short, if you think anything you're going to write is "off topic" to the current post, but still related to pickup, women, gender politics and other topics I discuss on this blog, then please leave a comment to the most recent Open Thread, such like this one. Just post below.

Thank you.

Wednesday, December 23, 2015

Did anybody notice that the mainstream media loves to tell us that women well beyond their prime are hot?

Some of the topics I follow in the news, like jihadists killing yet another group of infidels, tend to lead me occasionally to sites like the Daily Mail. There, you get bombarded with "related links" that normally lead to gossip about celebrities, mixed up with acts of terrorism, rape, divorce scandals and whatever else floats the boat of your typical Daily Mail reader.

What I found remarkable, though, is that no matter how old a woman they do an article on is, she is always "gorgeous". This might be an adequate assessment if it's some 20 year-old air head. However, they don't change the wording even when they write on a woman in her 50s. For a case in point, look at the "impressive physique" of this 50-year old named Emma Forbes. It would presumably fall under "fair use" to paste a picture here, but I don't want to expose you to that material without warning. Keep in mind that the other links are even harder to stomach.

Reader Question: How does a nerdy introvert meet hot women?

Reader "smashthestate" left the following comment on the most recent Open Thread. I think it serves as a very good example of why people fall for seduction community bullshit:

I have a question for Alek Novy but ofc anyone can pitch in...

As someone who advocates social circle game, how do you suggest an introvert with niche interests starts getting regular access to hot women that are also personally compatible?

I'm looking for a relationship and I really suck at clubbing (don't really have it in me to approach and I'm not good looking enough I think). Problem is I mostly have male friends in nerdy circles that rarely have any women involved - and if there are any, they are usually unavailable due to already having a BF or simply not being attracted to me.

Thursday, December 3, 2015

About the Future Direction of this Blog

A lot of the feedback I got to my recent article on mass migration --- part II will follow within the next few days --- was very thought-provoking, and touches upon several issues I would like to explore further, with a public discussion as well. However, it seems that following this direction would move too far away from the main themes I have been covering as "Aaron Sleazy". Thus, I will explore those issues on a separate blog. I'll let you know about the details soon. In fact, I have been playing around with the idea to discuss some of the more serious topics, like relationships and issues related to philosophy of life, inasmuch as it pertains to more than just your relationship to pussy, on a separate blog or website for quite some time.

Thus, in the future, "Aaron Sleazy" will more generally focus on women, pickup, and the occasional gender politics issue, while another blog, under a different pen name, will discuss topics of a more serious nature. It seems that a significant part of my audience consists of critical thinkers, so there arguably will be some overlap in the target audience anyway.

Over the last few years I got a steady trickle of emails in which people asked me whether I was "quitting" or whether I had dropped writing, or something to that effect. This is not true. I have been focusing on moving into a different direction in real life, which was, and still is, a rather time-consuming endeavor. It seems to be turning out quite alright, though. I still have a few intense months ahead of me, but the light at the end of the tunnel is getting brighter. You may have noticed that I have been posting a bit more in November, compared to previous months. I will hopefully be able to increase my output further in the near future.

However, do note that I consider my work on "Aaron Sleazy"-related topics to be largely done. There are still topics worth writing about, at least on a blog. I intend to discuss different, and partly related topics, in future books, but under a different pen name. For instance, I have been working on a book on relationships, which I will not release as Aaron Sleazy. Likewise, my upcoming book on meditation will not be released as an Aaron Sleazy book either. I think there will be at least one more Aaron Sleazy book, though.

I have now been writing online for close to ten years, and all of it started more or less as an accident. I never had any plan to follow a particular marketing strategy, nor was my goal to get the most money out of this. My writing has always been a hobby, and an important creative outlet for me. It is not my main occupation. For you, as a reader, this has the benefit that I can afford to upset people. In other words, I express a genuine point of view, which seems to be a relatively rare thing online these days. I could arguably have more readers if I kowtowed to the ideological mainstream, or jumped on, for instance, the manuresphere bandwagon, but that would rob me of any motivation to express my views online. I express my point of view, not the point of view my target reader would want to see expressed. I am very grateful for the many smart people who comment on my blog, write on my forum, or email me. The quality of my audience is much more important for me than its quantity, and this will not change, no matter under which name I am going to write online in the future.

Tuesday, December 1, 2015

The Open Thread: December 2015

Since I get a relatively high number of comments that are tangential to the articles, I'd like to try to move those parts of the conversation to the monthly 'Open Thread'.

In short, it you think anything you're going to write is "off topic" to the current post, but still related to pickup, women, gender politics and other topics I discuss on this blog, then please leave a comment to the most recent Open Thread, such like this one. Just post below.

Thank you.

Monday, November 30, 2015

Mass Migration, Divorce Courts, and the Systematic Subjugation of Betas (Part I)

This is a post highly critical of Western society. I will draw a parallel between a systematic abuse targeting both entire nations, namely unrestrained and illegal mass immigration in Western Europe, which will destroy one society after another, and the destruction of the economic livelihood of men who get raped in divorce courts. Some of my points may seem far-fetched, but if you want to engage in a debate with me in the comment section, I at the very least expect you to put a modicum of thought into contribution.

In the first part I will discuss the disastrous contemporary political realities in Western Europe, focusing on Germany, but, to varying degrees, the same applies to other European countries as well. Part II will be on the alimony and child support racket.

Gimmegration = Illegal Mass Migration due to Economic Motives

Those of you who know about what has been happening in Europe with regards to unrestrained and illegal mass migration, and are able to think for themselves probably realize that Europe is going down fast. Frankly, I think the situation is beyond hope. Just to briefly summarize the situation in Germany: this year, about two million illegal immigrants are expected. In fact, nobody even knows how many have arrived.

Now, you may wonder why I dare to call those people illegals. This is simply due to laws such as the Dublin Regulations. In short, an asylum seeker has to apply for asylum in the first safe county he enters. These days we are mostly dealing with men, so I can skip the female pronoun. Should Muhammad Gimmegrant decide that Greece is not safe enough and head off to safer, i.e. wealthier countries in the North, he is, as a matter of fact illegally entering foreign territory. In saner times, this would be a serious crime. In fact, it is still a crime, and there are countries where you will be shot if you dare to enter illegally and don’t heed the warning of the border police.

A Woman Invited them All In

However, German chancellor Angela Merkel invited them all in. I really have no idea what she is snorting, but it must be some really potent stuff, which made her utter that she does not care whether she is responsible on gimmegrants flooding the country, "because now they are there" [source in German]”. What kind of logic is this? Just claim you’re from Syria, and you’ll get food, shelter, clothing, and some pocket money on top as well. Go ahead and rape native women — the police and press will do their best to cover it up, in order to not incite racist sentiments.

Let’s talk about numbers! Consider that on some days over 10,000 gimmegrants illegally entered Germany. Just slowly digest the number: ten-fucking-thousand, basically a small town, day after day for weeks on end. Note that we are not talking about “doctors and engineers”, unlike the elites tried to tell the people, but largely poorly educated people, with a significant number of illiterates. There is very little hope that more than an insignificant percentage of them will be able to make a positive economic contribution to this country. Besides, let’s not forget that there are millions of unemployed or underemployed Germans who would certainly like to take all the allegedly available jobs this flood of illegal migrants is supposed to take up. Of course you'd be called a racist if you pointed out that those people then to have dramatically lower IQs. For instance, a recent study found that the best guess for the African median IQ is 75. In case you are not familiar with IQ values: 100 is "normal", even with 105 you're seen as noticeably smarter. On the other hand, an IQ of 75 is close to mental retardation. [The source is the study "African cognitive ability: Research, results, divergences and recommendations" by the renowned psychologist R. Rindermann.]

Beta men of Germany, bend over!

What will be the result of all of this? Frankly, it does not take much to predict a dramatic lowering of living standards, dramatic increase of crime rates, and ever-larger parallel societies. In 10 to 15 years most of Germany will look like Berlin-Kreuzberg or Duisburg-Marxloh. Given that the majority of taxes are paid by men, all those German betas will have to bend over to finance shelter, food, clothing, and pocket money for their occupiers. At the same time, German boys and girls will have to share class rooms with a large number of people from societies in which education is not quite so highly valued. Sweden provides an excellent example of what happens if you let in large numbers of people who eagerly procreate, but who are not so eager to adopt Western values. In fact, Sweden steadily worked its way towards the bottom of the entire OECD in the PISA survey, which measures high school student performance.

Do you think there is a pattern? I would say there is, namely an utter disregard for reality, which manifests itself by happily taking actions without considering their long term consequences. Countries like Sweden and Germany let in an inordinate amount of illegals, seemingly just because they “feel like it”, completely ignoring the long-term costs. It’s the equivalent of some semi-decently looking chick getting tattoos, doing porn to fund her drug habit, and hoping that she’ll be able to settle down with a millionaire in her early 40s, in order to start a family. Of course this sounds absurd, but it sounds a lot less absurd than inviting two million illegals into your country in 2015 alone, and funding a comparably comfortable life for them. In the end, the obedient betas will have to pay for the multicultural fever dreams of the elites, at least until the demographic shift has happened that is due to having more adolescent muslim men than adolescent Germans in the country. What could possibly go wrong?

In the second part, I will discuss how society tries to break the back of men with alimony and child support, and draw some parallels to the greater political scene, since there is a common theme.

What do you think? Let me know in the comments below!
(Also, if you’ve got a comment that is off-topic or only tangentially related to this article, then please post in the most recent Open Thread. Thank you.)

Sunday, November 29, 2015

Your girl always has big plans for the two of you

In a recent email exchange, a friend of mine dropped that he was now in a relationship. He doesn’t think it’s serious, but, as he remarked, she seems to be having big plans. I found this amusing, as it points towards a fundamental aspect of the female psyche: She always has big plans.

The previous statement might need some qualification. True, in this day and age, girls are supposed to behave like “alpha males”, go through a few dozen cocks as an expression of their independence, and manage to settle down before they hit the proverbial wall. What girls very quickly learn, though, is that it really is not so easy to get laid by alpha guys all the time, and those tend to quickly move on.

Sunday, November 8, 2015

The "Honest Deception" video and the reality of open relationships (for betas)

Some time ago someone posted a video with the title "Honest Deception" on this blog. The scene shows a spineless beta who gets told, by his future wife, that she would like to fuck other men, too. The occasional humor falls flat, but there is an interesting aspect of it, namely the power dynamics. But first, watch the video if you haven't already: