I have a question for Alek Novy but ofc anyone can pitch in...
As someone who advocates social circle game, how do you suggest an introvert with niche interests starts getting regular access to hot women that are also personally compatible?
I'm looking for a relationship and I really suck at clubbing (don't really have it in me to approach and I'm not good looking enough I think). Problem is I mostly have male friends in nerdy circles that rarely have any women involved - and if there are any, they are usually unavailable due to already having a BF or simply not being attracted to me.
This question is the equivalent of "how does a poor, badly dressed, fat slob get hot women?" Of course, the answer is "he won't". Instead fix your life where it is lacking. If you have no money, get some money. If you dress poorly, fix your wardrobe, and if you're overweight, then pick up some kind of exercise that gets you into shape. Similarly, if your social circle does not allow you to meet women, then you maybe want to consider seeking out activities that you enjoy and which will make it easier for you to meet members of the opposite sex.
Of course, all of this requires some work and undermines the "you are special" message the average person in the Western world has been exposed all their life. No, unlike anybody else, you should not have to make an effort. Instead, hot women should just come to you, even if you spend your spare time locked up in your room playing World of Warcraft or Dota.
What do you think? Let me know in the comments below!
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