I’ve ridiculed those beliefs plenty of times. However, let’s discuss in more constructive ways what you can do to become more attractive. As I thought more about this, it dawned on me that you could condense all plausible pickup advice to saying that game is mostly preparation. This obviously includes your lifestyle, physical fitness, disposable income, clothes, or the location of your apartment. The “game” is mostly over when you’re actually approaching her.
Of course all of this is obvious to anybody who goes out and regularly interacts with women. They notice that some women react positively to them, while most are either indifferent or just not into you. On the other hand, guys who don’t take care of themselves only know that women are generally indifferent to them. Even that is too strong a statement to make. Instead, they are, quite frankly, invisible to women. It’s apparently much more difficult to formulate reasonable hypotheses on dating and mating if this applies to you.
Yet, just like you might say to yourself that you would like to fuck this or that woman, and it’s something you normally figure out pretty quickly, so do women size you up in an incredibly short amount of time. An exception are women who are looking for a provider, since they want to figure out how much money you have. Those you’re probably better off avoiding altogether. Given physical attraction, it’s more or less only a matter of availability whether you’re going to get laid, which might depend on your or her relationship status and access to a location where you can have sex in, and that’s basically it. However, if you’re not in a position where a reasonably large number of women indicates sexual availability to you, the question on how to get them to have sex with you is irrelevant since it’s simply not an option. Ask any of the “1000 approaches and 1 date” guys to learn more about this!