While we were discussing whore mongering the other day, someone remarked that there is the risk of contracting STDs. I strongly believe that the risk of contracting an STD from a proper professional, i.e. not a bargain basement hooker who turns tricks to finance her drug habit, is much lower than catching something from a regular woman. An elite whore lives by her reputation. In fact, just rude behavior is something you should not expect very much, based on the fact that clients frequent whore monger forums to exchange notes. Treat one client like crap, and chances are that Helen High-Class Hooker will lose some business. I bet that just the rumor that escort X has given you an STD would have serious consequences. Thus, it is in their best interest to always use protection.
Now, from talking to proud whore mongers, I get the sense that reality is not quite as clear cut, meaning that there is some shady business going on, like expensive whores offering bareback to a repeat customer for a higher fee, which is probably not a good sign. Still, I am of the opinion that a regular woman is a greater risk for your health than a professional hooker, based on my experience. What might that experience amount to, you may ask? It's simple: of all the women I've fucked, only a very small minority insisted on condoms. This does not mean that I raw dogged a ton of chicks, though. As much fun as it is to fuck them raw, one proper pregnancy or STD scare is probably enough to make you think twice before pounding her without protection.
It seems the behavior of woman in that regard has a lot to do with the role you play in her life. By now it's well established that women want "beta bucks" and "alpha fucks". If you are an alpha, chances are that she's dripping wet and wants you on a rather primal level. She may even say something like, "you have to be careful now" (translation: "fuck me without a condom if you want"). I've heard variations of "be careful" or "do whatever you want with me" about as often as "we are not going to have sex tonight". More aggressive women may even insist on you fucking her without protection. Heck, she may even pull the condom off your cock. I had several instances of women saying something like "let me help you", proceeding to play with my balls or letting them disappear in her mouth --- and remove the condom in the process. One said she'd "help me" get the condom over my cock, so she takes it --- and just throws it away.
My experience is hardly unique. Every guy I know who has fucked a lot of women has made the same experience: if you are the alpha, the condom is basically optional. On the other hand, betas make different experiences. I once spoke to a guy who wanted to know how he could get his girlfriend to fuck him raw. She probably raw dogged two thirds of her one-night stands, but for her beta provider she has to act differently. Does this remind you of something? Exactly! It is the behavior of "reformed sluts" who go through a sizable number of men and suddenly realize that they are 25 and not getting any younger. She knows that fucking a guy quickly, performing certain sexual acts, or letting him raw dog her may send the wrong signal if her goal is to tie down some beta. Thus, she turns into a prude, but just for him.
The lesson thus is: if you are a beta and think your girl is a prude and would never do something like fucking a hot stranger raw when the opportunity arises then you have some growing up to do. This is precisely why regular girls have a higher risk of having an STD because when they are horny, really horny, then rationality goes out the window. Whether this is good or bad for an alpha male is a matter of perspective. From an evolutionary perspective, though, it makes sense that sexually active women insist on condoms when fucking betas but act more recklessly when they meet an alpha. But for betas they are not quite in such a hurry to get dick. After all, it's a good idea to use protection, isn't it?
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