The interesting aspect is that the guy is supposed to be used for the resources he provides, while she would like to fuck other guys as well. Given that a lot of women simply cheat on their beta providers without telling them, this could be viewed as an improvement. Yet, it is clear that she is in a position of power --- because he allows her to walk all over him.
Now you might say that this is just acting, but I have been told similar stories of other guys, "beta chumps" you may call them. It was more or less always the same story: guy in his late 20s, at the earliest, woman either close to 30 or between 30 and 40. She realizes that she really needs to settle down and secure resources. Yet, after fucking around since your teenage years, restricting yourself to just one cock is apparently not good enough, so she want to get "alpha cock" for as long as possible. The "manuresphere" now thinks that they are all riding the cock carousel until they hit menopause. In reality, though, women like that have been coming on to men for quite a few years, but sadly it's often men who do have options, so they rather fuck younger women instead, so all her fucking other men may very well only happen in her fantasies.
In my view, "open relationships" are a bit of a charade. It seems indeed much more often the case that a woman is manipulating a guy into letting her fuck others, which she would do anyway. However, if she gets the chump to agree, then she does not have to have a bad conscience. Also note that it is very convenient to tell a guy who barely gets laid, and was arguably manipulated into enduring a sexless relationship, that he could fuck others. She only has to go about her day, and some dudes will come up to her, while he would have to make an active effort. Her role is mostly reactive, while his would have to be proactive. Thus, she could easily claim the moral high ground, since existing dynamics between the sexes in Western society allow her to be inactive.
It's also amusing that those beta chump/aging whore dynamics would cause great drama if the power dynamics were reversed. Have you ever had a woman you've known for a few days ask you whether you're seeing other girls, or would want to see other girls --- maybe as she finds some other girl's panties under your bed? Chances are that she would not quite be so tolerant. (Protip: don't cave in, and chances are that she's back in one or two days anyway and if not, well, you're fucking other chicks anyway, right?)
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