AaronSleazy.com and Forum online again!

There were a few hiccups with the move to my new server, but the support crew was very competent and eventually everything worked out fine. Both AaronSleazy.com and my forum are fully operational again.

Thank you for your patience, and look forward to some more substantial posts in the very near future.

AaronSleazy.com is Moving!

My website AaronSleazy.com is being moved to a different server and thus currently unavailable. It should be back online within 72 hours.

Once the site is back online and running again, you can expect some more posts on my blog as well, and a new piece from Anthony Myers is in the pipeline, too.

I'm sorry for the inconvenience.

Seminar in Frankfurt on 11 February 2012

I'll do a seminar in Frankfurt am Main in Germany on 11 February 2012, together with German dating coach and author Kolja Alexander Bonke. This seminar will be held in German, and thus the announcement is in this language as well. (My English speaking followers may excuse this.)

Here is the full announcement:

Aaron Sleazy & Kolja Alexander Bonke
Dating und Partnersuche Seminar: „Viel Erfolg mit wenig Aufwand“
Am Samstag, den 11. Februar 2012, 11.15 Uhr in Frankfurt am Main

Das Pareto-Prinzip ist auch unter dem Namen 80-20-Regel bekannt: 20 % Aufwand bringen 80 % Ergebnis. Dieser Effekt lässt sich auf Dating und Partnersuche übertragen. In diesem einmalig stattfindenden Seminar lernst du, wie du mit relativ geringem Einsatz deinen Erfolg bei Frauen gewaltig steigern kannst.

Q&A on Reddit next Thursday

I will do a Q&A session on Reddit (a so-called AMA) next Thursday. The exact time is: December 8th, at 6 pm Eastern time.

The announcement was posted some hours ago, and you can file questions as comments to the thread. There is already one great question on there about how to find out what really works, which should be very illuminating. Also, some community nerds are jumping on the thread already, so this Q&A session should indeed be great fun.

So, either participate yourself by posting your question in the comments within the next few days, or join me over there next week and watch me slaughter the RSD and MM fanboys one after another.

Guest Article on GirlsChase.com

Amidst all the excitement surrounding the release of Minimal Game, I found the time to contribute an article to Chase Amante's blog to read my article "How to Truly Get Intimate with a Girl." This piece is especially useful if you are hung up on the idea of "really getting to know a girl" before daring to turn the interaction sexual.

Here's an excerpt:

I advocate a method of seduction that operates on the premise of having sex with the girl as early as possible. What this means depends of course a lot on your inclinations and circumstances. In any case, though, it should not take you three dates and six weeks until you finally make a move. 

This position flies in the face of mainstream dating advice, and also within the seduction community I have been vigorously attacked for it. While the former group thinks it’s a sign of moral decay to want to have sex with a girl quickly, although girls also want it badly, the latter seems to share this opinion as well. While there is the typical boasting and ill-intended advice to get over a girl by “GFTOW” — I’ll let you google that acronym for yourself, but you should also know that this concept is nothing but a fantasy for “PUAs” —, suddenly there is a regression to the morals of our grandparents once a guy realizes that he actually really, really just wants to have a girlfriend.

Minimal Game beats a Cosmopolitan Guide

I skimmed some lists on Amazon.com recently, and was quite surprised that Minimal Game has captured the second position on the list of "Hot New Releases in Human Sexuality" aka. "Sex." My book is beating out a guide published by Cosmopolitan with the title "Satisfy a Woman Every Single Time."

I don't want to know how much money they have put into advertising it, while on the other hand Minimal Game sells only due to word of mouth. But without wanting to sound overly arrogant, I probably have more experience than all the "Editors of Cosmopolitan" put together, so I rightly deserve to beat them.

Thanks for the support guys!

There'll be Big News Tomorrow

Yes, that's right. Tomorrow I'll make a big announcement, and I promise that you won't be disappointed. All I am going to say is that "it" has been in the making for over two years now.

Illuminatus Interviews Aaron Sleazy

Some time ago I have hinted at an upcoming interview Illuminatus from Personal Power Meditation conducted with me. It's long, but it will be worth it, especially if you want to learn more about my meditative practice and my general outlook on life, both of which had a big positive impact on my level of success with women.

This is from the introduction:

I made Sleazy my mentor, paying strict attention to his writings and exchanging emails with him regularly. As a meditation teacher, I became particularly interested in how Sleazy had used meditative methods to create the mindset of clarity and focus which he attributes much of his success to. Thus, instead of focusing on his adventures in seduction (which are already well-documented), in this interview I have chosen to focus on the mental basis of Aaron Sleazy: the man himself, and how he developed the psychological wherewithal to become a master seducer capable of flouting social norms and behaving on his own agenda at will – a feat most men only dream of.

Please go ahead and read Illuminatus's "Interview With Aaron Sleazy"!

Upcoming Interview in German

The interview by Illuminatus I recently mentioned isn't the only one I recently finished. Those of you who understand German will soon have the chance to read even more from me. Instead of talking about seduction in detail, I will reveal more about my development as a seducer and what role my environment has played, before I eventually drift off to discussing the nightlife in London and Berlin. Finally, I will speak up on various gender issues. Feminists surely won't enjoy the reading, but if you've got a pair of balls in your pants, you will.

The interview will appear in the next issue of Anti-Everything, which will be released in early October. It will be available in various stores and from a number of mailorders. More news will follow in due time.

Re: Chat log with DutchAttraction.nl

You may remember that I have had a chat session with DutchAttraction last year. In my current drive to make my website and my writings more easily accessible, I have thus also re-edited the chat log, which is now much easier to read.

It went from somewhat unsightly formatting and the cumbersome fact that you had to read the log from bottom to top, as in:

Aaron Sleazy - do mei 20, 2010 8:28 pm
Trust me, if she doesn't like you, she will remove that arm
Aaron Sleazy - do mei 20, 2010 8:28 pm
She might stand at the bar and I put my arm around her waist casually
Aaron Sleazy - do mei 20, 2010 8:27 pm
Screening: Once I approach, it's how she reacts to my touch
Aaron Sleazy - do mei 20, 2010 8:27 pm
before deciding whether you should move on or not
Aaron Sleazy - do mei 20, 2010 8:27 pm
Think about it -- some basic maths -- would you rather approach four girls a night and spend 20 to 30 minutes with each, or approach

...to this much more pleasant formatting:

Aaron Sleazy: Think about it -- some basic maths -- would you rather approach four girls a night and spend 20 to 30 minutes with each, or approach 30 girls and invest 5 minutes
Aaron Sleazy: before deciding whether you should move on or not
Aaron Sleazy: Screening: Once I approach, it's how she reacts to my touch
Aaron Sleazy: She might stand at the bar and I put my arm around her waist casually
Aaron Sleazy: Trust me, if she doesn't like you, she will remove that arm

So, go ahead and have a look!

"A Week with Sleazy" by Illuminatus

In late August I spent one week at Illuminatus's place in England. He has recorded his impressions in a post called "A Week with Sleazy" on his forum, and he covers a whole range of issues: meditation, breathing techniques, my world view,  but of course he also gives an outside view of seeing me in the club interacting with women.

Check it out!

Update on Interview by Illuminatus

Some time ago I mentioned an upcoming interview Illuminatus from Personal Power Meditation has conducted with me. I can already tell you that the interview is done now. The word count is close to 7,000. This means that there will be a lot of content in it. The focus is not on seduction, though, but more on my worldview.

Now you may ask why the interview hasn't been released if it's done. Well, the reason is simple: it got picked up by Interesting Times magazine, a PDF publication that describes itself as a "self-help magazine for extreme people".

The next issue should be released in September. I will keep you posted.

Classic Posts from 2009 are up now!

Following up on the previous post, I have now updated the Classic Posts section of my forum with a high-quality selection of posts from 2009. It includes masterpieces such as:


Really Smooth Escalations 
Three Techniques for indirect sexual Stimulation 
How to get away with utterly inappropriate Behavior in field
Practicing Push/Pull with Cats and Chicks
How the looks scale can keep you from progressing 
So, you think entering and maintaining a (monogamous) relationship is difficult!?
“All I want is a girlfriend!"
Lick her nipples like you lick her clit
Don’t expect anything and be grateful for everything 
Basic Club Dynamics: The Rhythm of Venues and People 


If you know of any other "guru" who not only is as experienced and knowledgeable as me, but also willing to share the majority of his work with the world free of charge so that others can improve their love life, then please let me know. (Yes, this remark is aimed at some of the trolls over at PUAHate.com)

Classic posts by Sleazy!

Today I have begun making some of my classic posts available again on my forum. Those are articles that have originally appeared on various forums or on my old blog. So far, I have gone through my posts from 2008, and have selected 26 great pieces, with all-time favourites such as:

The Power of Sexual Stereotyping

Don’t just be non-reactive. Be a bit of a dick!

The Asshole Rockstar gets away with everything

Is the PU industry a sham industry? Some observations.

Downsides of Being Alpha

Target selection for frustrated and constantly horny guys

Please check out the Classic Posts section on my forum!

I will add articles from 2009 later today. Posts from 2010 onwards will probably be cross-posted in relevant sections of my forum.

Again available: Phone Coaching Sessions

I haven't offered any kind of coaching for about a year now. Unfortunately, I don't yet know when (or if) I'll be able to offer one-on-one "in-field" training again. However, my real-life schedule has become manageable enough to revive my phone coaching program.

Prices and duration are the same as last year. Given the current rate of inflation, this probably means that it has become a steal in the meantime. Please have a look at the detailed description at my website and contact me if you are interested.

Upcoming: Illuminatus interviews Aaron Sleazy

My little piece on Vin DiCarlo and loneliness wasn't the surprise I had hinted at in my little teaser on the upcoming German translation of Sleazy Stories. No, it's something even better: while I have been incredibly busy the last 10 months or so, I'm now in the fortunate position to finally see some of my projects come to fruition. I've previously mentioned another book I'm working on already, but there is much more going on behind the scenes, such as an interview with Illuminatus. You may know him as Corvette from mASF, but like pretty much every other big name, he doesn't post there anymore.

Teaser: Cover of German Edition of Sleazy Stories

The German edition of Sleazy Stories with the title "Schmierige Geschichten" will be released very soon. If everything goes according to plan, which it so far does, you'll be able to order it next week already. I will release a sample PDF file as well. A dedicated page on my official website is already up and will be updated in due time.

Joint Seminar with Illuminatus & Aaron Sleazy / Nottingham, England / 27th August 2011

Hello,

it is my great pleasure to announce my upcoming seminar with Illuminatus aka. Corvette. If you have first come across my articles when I was still actively posting on seduction forums, you have surely read some of his writings as well, and if not, I urge you to check out his homepage as he has written a great number of interesting articles, and recently he has released his first book, too. Please note that this will be my only seminar in 2011.

Illuminatus will speak on overcoming social anxieties, a topic most relevant for seduction. My talk will be based on my upcoming third book, in which I will outline the by far clearest, simplest, and easiest to implement "method" of seduction. It will blow your socks off!

The full announcement is attached.

Best regards,
Aaron Sleazy

Quick Update: Upcoming Books, Posts, and a Seminar, too!

I have been incredibly busy with my life in recent months, and I'm spending most of the summer travelling. However, I will update the blog a bit more regularly in the future.

My email inbox is overflowing; and I think I'll do some more "community bashing". However, even though some of my critics love to accuse me for "being negative", a more than just cursory glance at those posts should make it obvious that there is plenty of "value" in those contributions.

Upcoming Releases

Today, I have started on converting Sleazy Stories for Amazon's Kindle. I have done a rough first conversion of the text, but there are some minor formatting issues which have yet to be sorted out. I will keep you updated about the status of this project.

Also, I have finished the translation of Sleazy Stories into German. The book has to go through just one more proof-read. If everything works out, it will be released as a paperback as well as in an ebook version for Kindle.

It's been almost a year now since I have released Debunking the Seduction Community. The effect this ebook had was beyond my wildest expectations, and I still regularly receive emails about it. I have gathered a lot of material for an update, but I also want to keep it as concise as possible. This means that I will probably only release a minor update, but the few pages of new content should be worth it.

Lastly, I have been working on a manuscript for an instructional book on seduction for a while. The promise is nothing more than to lay out the most concise, efficient and versatile approach to seduction. The feedback I have received on drafts has been ecstatic. The book is currently in its final stages, and I'll reveal more about it soon. However, if you ask me when I'll be releasing it, I'll take the same stance as ID Software does with its games: "When it's done."