The amateur will hit on a woman right away. We wait 8 minutes.
I chuckled and thought what you can do in eight minutes. One of the projects I want to finish this year is the sequel to Sleazy Stories, and it features plenty of encounters that found their natural completion in less time.
But that's enough mouth-watering since my (free) ebook "Debunking the Seduction Community" is not out yet. It is currently on the desk of my editor and if everything goes as planned, it will be out next week.
Dear Mr Sleazy, thanks for visiting my petit blog. Mystery's quote is questionable, indeed. Every successful seducer experienced kinky situations in his 'career' where 8 minutes were enough to pretty much get a full close. No doubt about that. But imo Mystery's quote has some educational value for typical AFCs and other guys who start with a lame compliment to get a girl's attention. Waiting some minutes and letting her qualify herself first can be a good strategy for someone like that. Best wishes, C.
ReplyDeleteThe 8 minutes is probably used to run DHV stories in your own head, with a silent war cry, in the goal of creating a temporary confident inner game. Note: the consumption of one beer can reduce that delay by half.
ReplyDeleteJokes aside, wasn't it Mystery who said to approach after 3 seconds max?
Neparlepas, that's a good reply to Cowboy's comment.
ReplyDeleteMystery and all his rules only help you to get into your own head, which is hardly a good prerequisite for pickup.
I have seen a lot of community guys just going in. With some perception they would have known before the approach that they would crash and burn. But had they waited maybe 15 more minutes, they would have stood a much better chance.
ReplyDeleteCowboy,
ReplyDeletefifteen minutes are an eternity in a night club... To a beginner, it feels even longer.
I know, Mr Sleazy, I know, but my last comment was a quote of you in the Cliff's List interview.
ReplyDeleteDude, don't quote me out of context. You are only wasting your time (and mine). I wrote: "Based on her physiology you can literally see, with enough experience, whether she is open or not to an approach. On the other hand, I have seen a lot of community guys just going in. With some perception they would have known before the approach that they would "crash and burn." But had they waited maybe fifteen more minutes, they would have stood a much better chance."
ReplyDeleteThe timespan refers to the woman needing time to get used to the club environment, which is entirely different from what you are talking about, i.e. isolated approaches that don't even consider external factors.