Mailbag: Dick Questions

I received quite a few questions, all in one comment, regarding the size of male and female sexual organs. There are probably a few who’ll find this interesting, so it’s well-warranted to make a separate post on this. Those questions originally appeared in a comment on Some critical Feedback to "Debunking", Part II.

Just a few questions about the BIG DICK issue:
1) Did women actually take a look at your crotch and could you notice a change in their attitude after it? (I assume you were wearing tight jeans in the clubs?)

Some have certainly noticed it. I remember one chick who took pictures of my crotch, which I only found out because she accidentally uploaded them to Facebook. There were a few others who I suspect to have taken pictures of the silhouette of my cock. In general, though, it seems to make them more likely to stick around. I’d say it’s similar to when you realize that the girl you’re  talking to has a much bigger rack than you at first assumed, because she’s not wearing a push-up bra.

2) Have you seen/heard of opposite examples: girls looking at a (pretty) mans crotch, but seeing that it was not that voluminous, getting turned off by it?

I have no idea. But I’ve been told that some women don’t go near Asian men because of their reputation of having small penises, which is obviously related to their height, since they’re often shorter than Westerners. Asian readers, please don’t be offended! I’m only relaying what girls have told me. One used the pejorative “puny pencil penises”, which I thought was kind of funny.

3) There is often this talk about to big is bad, because it is bad, but this is probably just BS, isn't it?
Would you say that the most beautiful and sexually competent women love big dick the most whereas the more plain and/or frigid girls prefer them smaller?

I don’t know. Most girls I’ve fucked found it painful when I went in deep, but it’s not as if they didn’t like it. It’s not as if I’m literally hung like a horse, though. I once had an Asian girl I really couldn’t enter, and that didn’t seem like the kind of pleasant pain.

4) Do you think the size and/or tightness of vaginas varies as much as the penis size with us men? And do different women therefore have different preferences? Or is it more like one sizes fits all?

Penises and vaginas come in different sizes. Just as taller guys tend to have bigger penises, so do taller women tend to have bigger pussies. Don't worry, though, your cock probably fits into any or almost any pussy you’ll ever encounter.

Could you observe different reactions from different body sized women?

Yes.

5) Is it true that, once you enter a sexual relationship with a woman, her vagina will start tightening up or to loosen in order to better fit your dick?

It will certainly adopt to your cock. I don’t think it will tighten, though. It seems that the vagina tightens somewhat due to inactivity, which is why your girlfriend may feel tighter if you haven’t seen her for a few weeks (and she hasn’t fucked around behind your back). But maybe that’s psychological due to her being a bit more excited and a bit tense, because she hopes that you still like fucking her.

6) What is your take on penis pumps like the bath mate?

I think it’s bullshit.

7) Is the diameter (the thickness) more important then the length?

I’m not an expert on penises, but I would be very surprised if it wasn’t the case that longer penises were also thicker. So, the answer is that it’s better to have a long and thick cock than a short and thin one.

8) Do you think, I can sue mother nature/god/the universe for my shortcomings? ;)

Haha! If you’re too concerned about your cock size, get shorter girls. Where bigger men failed to enter, you’ll find that you’ll slip right in.

If you could take some time to comment on those questions, I would very much appreciate it. 

Take care!

No problem. I hope you’ve found my answers helpful.