Here is the before:
...and here the after:
Watch the video, too, if you have a few minutes to spare! Of course, a woman dressing like that wants a man that keeps her (sexually) satisfied.
This is just an example. The point is simply that women can change their look a lot by changing their hairdo, makeup, and clothes. In fact, some women you may not even recognize in the 'after' picture. Maybe some of you have experienced this if you have female fellow students or colleagues who
Guys are a bit more limited in that matter. Normally your hair is shorter, growing a beard takes a lot of time, and makeup is a no-no anyway. Besides, clothing styles for men don't have the same variety as for women. This means that you will be a lot more limited with regards to expressing different 'personas'. Still, there is a lot you can do. For instance, my regular office clothing is far different from my outfit when going out. In fact, I occasionally to turn up the 'loser vibe' quite a bit, probably looking as if I haven't gotten my dick sucked in years if ever. You will be severely limited, just like any overweight woman is, to change your appearance a lot if you are out of shape. On the other hand, if you are in decent physical shape, you have a lot of possibilities.