Friday, April 20, 2012
Calling (Out) All PUAs!
PUAs, do you want to become rich and famous? If so, read on!
I had a run-in with Justin Wayne on a bigger PUA forum recently. He claimed that he could consistently get girls out of his league, but when I pressed him, he offered half a dozen alternative interpretations of "out of his league".
However, if "game" claims to have any merit, then it is exactly that: the claim that you could get girls you otherwise wouldn't get. Thus, you see those people writing that you can "bang any woman no matter how you look, how little money you have, where you live etc." Those are of course all bullshitty claims. But what else could they say? Nothing. "Asking girls out game" is just as effective as everything the PUAs have come up with.
Yet, despite all those claims, not once has a PUA come out to demonstrate his incredible abilities. Of course, guys occasionally get a girl that you might assume to be out of your league. Science calls this "assortative mating". Seduction Myth has an article with background information.
"PUAs" are no special snowflakes. Heck, most don't even get laid (seen first hand in London). On the other hand, "AFC Game" occasionally leads to guys getting girls "out of their league" simply by them being their type. The article I just linked to has some nice pictures, too.
To all PUAs (and their shills), let me ask you two questions:
First, do you claim that you are doing better than bog-standard "asking girls out" game?
Second, do you claim that you consistently get women who are out of your league?
(Notice the trap here: if they negated both, then they'd undermine their whole business proposition.)
The seduction industry has been around for well over a decade, and so far NOBODY could prove that he consistently gets women out of his league. If any of you PUAs think you do, you may want to subject your "method" to scrutiny. Maybe contact the guys behind Seduction Myth, or reply to this blog post.
We'll set up a little experiment for you, and if you manage to convincingly demonstrate that you indeed pull women "out of your league" consistently, you'll become a superstar, and will have clients from all over the world knocking on the door. However, so far, no company or guru, when pressed, have agree to an actual study to prove the validity of their claims.
If any of you wants to respond with an ad hominem a la "Sleazy, why don't you let others evaluate your game." or something like that, I have two responses for you:
1) To my knowledge, I am the first (and only) guy in this scene who said that he gets laid due to looks. For starters, I am 6'3", and because I look for mutual interest ("target selection"). I never claimed any mumbo-jumbo or secret powers.
2) I don't claim I get women out of my league. I consider myself fairly good-looking, and that's probably why I never had to bang a fattie.
Lastly, if anyone wants to run the "but you're a commercial guru, too" defence, I'll point out in advance that the "method" I promote got people laid before PUAs confused their minds, and gets people laid who were never exposed to PUA. Also, keep in mind that I don't make a living from being a "guru". For me, this is all just a hobby. This allows me to promote what I consider the truth. I can state things bluntly, even if they may be unpopular. As you surely agree, the commercial players in this industry can't afford this luxury.
So, who of you PUAs is up for the challenge? You claim super powers, so prove it!