Male/Female ratios in Europe

An anonymous reader posted a link to sex ratios in Europe. The data is from 2011, so it's not entirely up-to-date, but it is interesting nonetheless:

I am hardly an expert on the demographics of all European countries, but there are some observations and an explanation that is possibly generally valid. Note how East Germany suffers a deficit of women almost everywhere, with one exception: Berlin. The North of Sweden, a cold and dark place, is likewise missing women. Further, in England we see a situation not quite unlike Eastern Germany: women flock to the prosperous South East.

Check out Sonny's series on the PUA business

Despite my most recent article on Roosh, I don't intend to spend too much time on bashing PUAs. However, for a fresh take on that topic, check out Sonny's series "The PUA Industry Revealed". I particularly liked his post on in-field videos. Have a look around his site as well. It's geared towards younger guys, though, but if you dig around a bit you'll probably find a few posts you like.

Roosh is not as big a loser as the Daily Mail claims

I never thought that I would publicly defend Roosh, but this post will amount to at least a partial defense of him. What happened was that the Daily Mail recently posted a scathing article in which Roosh was ridiculed and depicted as a loser. Some people sent me gleeful emails pointing me to the Daily Mail article Not so cool now! Pro-rape pick-up artist pictured in a sweat-stained T-shirt at the door of his mother's home (where he lives in the BASEMENT!). Just look at it:

This article is nothing but a hatchet job, though. Let's just get one thing out of the way first: I don't know about Roosh's statements about legalizing rape. If he indeed wrote that it should be legal to rape women on private property, he may want to get his head checked. I do know that he wrote that he raped several women. Whether this is true is another story. It's quite possible that he only makes such statements in order to appeal to his sexually frustrated audience, and to gain notoriety.

The Open Thread: February 2016

Since I get a relatively high number of comments that are tangential to the articles, I'd like to try to move those parts of the conversation to the monthly 'Open Thread'.

In short, if you think anything you're going to write is "off topic" to the current post, but still related to pickup, women, gender politics and other topics I discuss on this blog, then please leave a comment to the most recent Open Thread, such like this one. Just post below.

Thank you.

Mass Migration, Divorce Courts, and the Systematic Subjugation of Betas (Part II)

In part I of this article we took a look at how 'betas'. in countries that are being flooded by unskilled illegal immigrants. are going to pay through the nose in order to ensure that the newly arrived and rapidly expanding minority will have their basic needs met. In fact, in many instances they are treated better than the natives. For instance, in Sweden they have the right to free dental care, which natives only have until they turn 18. In Germany they are financially better off than people living off welfare, and get other benefits on top, like free public transport. Just think of everything people were told that there was no money available for: health care, kindergartens, schools, universities, infrastructure, pensions. Yet, now all of a sudden Germany now apparently has billions available to shelter, clothe, and feed about one million illegal migrants who arrived in 2015, and the next million is expected to arrive this year.

"So what's the strategy here? Pretend you're not a nerd?"

This is a follow up to the post "Reader Question: How does a nerdy introvert meet hot women?", which led to a pretty good discussion. Unfortunately, my original suspicion only got reaffirmed, namely that the person asking this question is only looking for a quick fix. Instead of trying to change himself, so that people around him would react differently to him, he seems to have a hard time letting go of the idea that with a few cosmetic fixes all problems will be gone. This was perfectly captured in reader "smashthestate" asking,

"So what's the strategy here? Pretend you're not a nerd?"

Let that sink in for a moment, as it points toward a very fundamental issue.

The Open Thread: January 2016

Since I get a relatively high number of comments that are tangential to the articles, I'd like to try to move those parts of the conversation to the monthly 'Open Thread'.

In short, if you think anything you're going to write is "off topic" to the current post, but still related to pickup, women, gender politics and other topics I discuss on this blog, then please leave a comment to the most recent Open Thread, such like this one. Just post below.

Thank you.

Did anybody notice that the mainstream media loves to tell us that women well beyond their prime are hot?

Some of the topics I follow in the news, like jihadists killing yet another group of infidels, tend to lead me occasionally to sites like the Daily Mail. There, you get bombarded with "related links" that normally lead to gossip about celebrities, mixed up with acts of terrorism, rape, divorce scandals and whatever else floats the boat of your typical Daily Mail reader.

What I found remarkable, though, is that no matter how old a woman they do an article on is, she is always "gorgeous". This might be an adequate assessment if it's some 20 year-old air head. However, they don't change the wording even when they write on a woman in her 50s. For a case in point, look at the "impressive physique" of this 50-year old named Emma Forbes. It would presumably fall under "fair use" to paste a picture here, but I don't want to expose you to that material without warning. Keep in mind that the other links are even harder to stomach.

Reader Question: How does a nerdy introvert meet hot women?

Reader "smashthestate" left the following comment on the most recent Open Thread. I think it serves as a very good example of why people fall for seduction community bullshit:

I have a question for Alek Novy but ofc anyone can pitch in...

As someone who advocates social circle game, how do you suggest an introvert with niche interests starts getting regular access to hot women that are also personally compatible?

I'm looking for a relationship and I really suck at clubbing (don't really have it in me to approach and I'm not good looking enough I think). Problem is I mostly have male friends in nerdy circles that rarely have any women involved - and if there are any, they are usually unavailable due to already having a BF or simply not being attracted to me.

About the Future Direction of this Blog

A lot of the feedback I got to my recent article on mass migration --- part II will follow within the next few days --- was very thought-provoking, and touches upon several issues I would like to explore further, with a public discussion as well. However, it seems that following this direction would move too far away from the main themes I have been covering as "Aaron Sleazy". Thus, I will explore those issues on a separate blog. I'll let you know about the details soon. In fact, I have been playing around with the idea to discuss some of the more serious topics, like relationships and issues related to philosophy of life, inasmuch as it pertains to more than just your relationship to pussy, on a separate blog or website for quite some time.

Thus, in the future, "Aaron Sleazy" will more generally focus on women, pickup, and the occasional gender politics issue, while another blog, under a different pen name, will discuss topics of a more serious nature. It seems that a significant part of my audience consists of critical thinkers, so there arguably will be some overlap in the target audience anyway.

Over the last few years I got a steady trickle of emails in which people asked me whether I was "quitting" or whether I had dropped writing, or something to that effect. This is not true. I have been focusing on moving into a different direction in real life, which was, and still is, a rather time-consuming endeavor. It seems to be turning out quite alright, though. I still have a few intense months ahead of me, but the light at the end of the tunnel is getting brighter. You may have noticed that I have been posting a bit more in November, compared to previous months. I will hopefully be able to increase my output further in the near future.

However, do note that I consider my work on "Aaron Sleazy"-related topics to be largely done. There are still topics worth writing about, at least on a blog. I intend to discuss different, and partly related topics, in future books, but under a different pen name. For instance, I have been working on a book on relationships, which I will not release as Aaron Sleazy. Likewise, my upcoming book on meditation will not be released as an Aaron Sleazy book either. I think there will be at least one more Aaron Sleazy book, though.

I have now been writing online for close to ten years, and all of it started more or less as an accident. I never had any plan to follow a particular marketing strategy, nor was my goal to get the most money out of this. My writing has always been a hobby, and an important creative outlet for me. It is not my main occupation. For you, as a reader, this has the benefit that I can afford to upset people. In other words, I express a genuine point of view, which seems to be a relatively rare thing online these days. I could arguably have more readers if I kowtowed to the ideological mainstream, or jumped on, for instance, the manuresphere bandwagon, but that would rob me of any motivation to express my views online. I express my point of view, not the point of view my target reader would want to see expressed. I am very grateful for the many smart people who comment on my blog, write on my forum, or email me. The quality of my audience is much more important for me than its quantity, and this will not change, no matter under which name I am going to write online in the future.