Saturday, December 31, 2011

Last Minute Tips for New Year's Eve

Many of you probably can't resist the urge to go out tonight, and indeed, new year's eve is quite possibly the easiest day to get laid in the entire year (the few days before Valentine's Day are normally very good, too, but those girls are often hell-bent to have a "boyfriend" for Valentine's so that they don't feel sorry about themselves. In the US, Halloween is also great, but it's less so in Europe.) 

Friday, December 30, 2011

About Models and "Models"

In a discussion of "Krauser PUA", neparlepas from my forum posted a screenshot from a video that guy posted, in which he claimed to "pick up" (getting a flaky phone number?) two Estonian "models." I've discussed "Krauser PUA" before, and I've thoroughly rebuked him on my forum, when he wanted to get kudos for banging a girl exactly once after investing a serious amount of time and money. Here's my money quote:
I have just skimmed your report of the pick-up, and I wasn't surprised that it took you quite a long time to actually bang her. You mentioned five dates with nothing happening except some finger-banging, and that you meet up with her in Turkey after a few months, while having Skype contact from December to March. And in the end you only fuck her once.
Doesn't this strike you as slightly uneconomical?
Krauser PUA didn't show his face on my forum ever again afterwards. He's probably too busy picking up "models" in former communist countries. But what's wrong with picking up "models" you may now ask? Well, here's a picture of one of the "models" Krauser PUA boasts having picked up on YouTube:

As you can readily see, the issue is simply that the label "model" is used in such an inflationary fashion that it makes Rudolf Havenstein look like a choir boy. Neparlepas analyzed it this way:

If the two girls on the Youtube video are models, then im Brad Pitt. It seems to me that when a self-described PUAs start having a modicum of success with non-fat girls sporting blond hair&blue eyes, the change is so dramatic, they are automatically labeled models. 
Indeed, "PUAs" throwing around the word "models" is nothing new. Part of it is just juvenile boasting, but the label "model" is much more problematic. When a girl tells me she's a model, I usually just laugh. Given that I have never bumped into women like Adriana Lima, I have every right to. If she can actually live off her modeling, then she's a model. If not, then not. On a side note, I can call myself an author because I have written a couple of books, and even though I am not Hemingway, I can at least show those works to people. On the other hand, what does a "model" who gets booked twice a year for two or three years of her life, until she's deemed too old, really achieve besides some ego stroking? I used to do live modeling, but I never defined myself through it, and certainly not the same way some of the "models" in New York or London do. They may do some modeling from time to time, but they certainly aren't models.

I know how to move chess pieces, but would I care calling myself a chess player? Magnus Carlsen surely is in an entire different league, and this would still be true if I had an ELO rating of 2,500. By the same logic some women dare to call themselves "models", and "PUAs" fantasize about "pulling models" (i.e. non-fat girls who don't even call themselves "models"), I could easily construct my live to be one of a superstar. After all, I hang out with "publishers", "models", "singers", "basketball players", "pianists", "painters", and "philosophers" all the time.

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

If you are Batting 0.001

Recently, a guy on my forum, Warped Mindless, pointed me towards a post on RSD Nation that made me shake my head in disbelief. It was about some dude celebrating himself for approaching over 1,100 women and getting laid exactly once. He also mentions two blow jobs, but something tells me that this probably wasn't quite the kind performance you witness in your favourite POV porn clips.

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Guest Post: Introduction of Anthony Myers

As I have recently announced, Anthony Myers from will contribute to this blog. In this post, he tells you about his background and gives an overview of his knowledge. In subsequent posts, he'll give you practical advice on improving your health and fitness.

My name is Anthony Myers. I'm a formerly fat, asthmatic, socially awkward, wannabe professional gamer (Yes, seriously.) My former self would rather be alone than risk embarrassing myself by approaching a girl. Aaron has allowed me to be a guest posted on his website so I can share with you my story, and also teach you how I changed myself for the better.

Friday, December 23, 2011

Upcoming Guest Poster: Anthony Myers from

After my Reddit Q&A, Anthony Myers from Muscle Class contacted me. He liked my position on "game," and I found his view on working out very reasonable. Since he was looking to broaden his exposure, and I got the impression that you guys will learn a lot from him as well, it seemed a good idea to bring him on board as a guest poster.

You will very soon be able to read his introduction. This will be followed by a concise series of posts on effective fitness routines. The working title for this is "The Minimal Game of Working Out." Obviously, it doesn't make much sense to devote a large bulk of one's spare time to either fitness or picking up girls, so if you like my no-nonsense approach to pulling girls, you'll surely find Anthony's guide helpful to. Afterwards, Anthony will post on health and fitness topics, regularly with a connection to "game."

Look forward to it!

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

The Final Word on Height

I get annoyed when people try to attack me for my "negativity" when I tell them that height matters a great deal. Yes, if you you are short, you shouldn't be afraid of "cheating" by wearing shoes with a (slight) heel, and possibly height-increasing soles. After all, many women were heels as well. This strategy, however, is limited, and if you think you could gain some more inches by artificial means, then I'm sorry to tell you that doing so will completely mess up your proportions. In this post I thus want to present some strategies for successfully dealing with the issue of height, if it is a concern for you.

Monday, December 19, 2011

Improving the Reward to Effort Ratio

Johnny, a reader of my blog, brought up some interesting points in reply to my post Q&A Afterthoughts.
I feel day game in general has very low reward to effort ratio. Street game is just downright pathetic in this regard. I was initially sold on the idea that not every chick goes to bars/clubs but everyone definitely has to, say, do grocery shopping. Very quickly, after getting my first 10-15 numbers (and all of them flaked), I realized that it is a complete waste of time. You have zero control over the variables involved.
I completely agree with this statement. What is particularly questionable about street game is that you often can’t even make a good guess about basic compatibility because most people have to dress in a certain way for work. Obviously, you’ll do a lot better if you are able to style yourself for a particular audience.

Saturday, December 17, 2011

Review: Models by Mark Manson

I am not quite sure why Mark Manson decided to call this book Models as it is neither about that category of woman nor about presenting role models. The subtitle  A Comprehensive Guide to Attracting Women is much more fitting though, and Models succeeds in what it sets out to do. It is an okay guidebook that offers some interesting insights to the average reader.

Tuesday, December 13, 2011 Q&A Afterthoughts

Despite my expectations of having to battle hordes of guru fanboys and people who were otherwise deluded, like proponents of "indirect game," it turned out that after having thoroughly rebuffed two guys, the others remained in the woodwork.

The range of questions was indeed interesting, covering more than you'd expect. Starting from factors that generally improve your level of success with women and discussing particulars of effective approaches, people went on to pick my brain on topics such as sexual tension, Zen meditation, and how the contemporary social climate in Western societies makes men systematically emasculates men.

If you haven't checked out the Q&A thread with me on Reddit, then please go ahead and do so. You'll surely get a lot out of it!

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Minimal Game now also available for Kindle

I have received a lot of requests for an electronic release of Minimal Game. Even though I wrote that I would publish it in Amazon's Kindle in early 2012, people just kept emailing me about it. After over two dozen requests I realized that the interest was apparently greater than I thought, so I made the Kindle version a top priority. The conversion went a lot smoother than I had imagined, and Minimal Game is now already available for the Kindle.

You can buy it on,,, and any other international Amazon website.

You can read Kindle ebooks not only on Kindle readers, but also on the following platforms with the free Amazon's Kindle reader software: iOS (iPhone, iPad, iPod Touch), PC, Mac, Blackberry, Android, Windows Phone 7.

Friday, December 2, 2011

Q&A on Reddit next Thursday

I will do a Q&A session on Reddit (a so-called AMA) next Thursday. The exact time is: December 8th, at 6 pm Eastern time.

The announcement was posted some hours ago, and you can file questions as comments to the thread. There is already one great question on there about how to find out what really works, which should be very illuminating. Also, some community nerds are jumping on the thread already, so this Q&A session should indeed be great fun.

So, either participate yourself by posting your question in the comments within the next few days, or join me over there next week and watch me slaughter the RSD and MM fanboys one after another.

Thursday, December 1, 2011

Review: Freedom Twenty-Five: A 21st Century Man’s Guide to Life by Frost

Maybe you are familiar with Frost. He blogs on Freedom Twenty-Five about his attempt to find meaning in a world without. Having given up his well-paid government job, he nowadays resides in some Third World paradise. Freedom Twenty-Five: A 21st Century Man’s Guide to Life is his first book, and the title is more than fitting. It was released today and is available on Amazon as a paperback and in an electronic version for their Kindle ebook reader.

Frost challenges us to cut the bullshit from our lives, escape our mundane existence, and find ourselves. He himself hasn’t found all answers to the questions that were pressing him either, but he is able to share a tremendous amount of insight in this short book. The review is long and detailed, but if you trust my judgment without reading it, or you simply belong to the “tl; dr generation”, I’ll tell you straight away that I highly recommend this book. It may well be the best investment you have made all year long.

Monday, November 28, 2011

Upcoming Reviews

This is just a quick note to let you know about some of the books I am going to review soon. Some of those have been lying on my computer for more than a few weeks, but had to neglect them because I was busy with completing Minimal Game. Another one, I've received very recently.

The books are:
Game Revision System by 60 Years of Challenge
Models by Mark Manson
Freedom Twenty-Five by Frost

In addition to that, I am going to review the movie The Great Happiness Space, which is a documentary about what could best be described as male escorts, but, given that it describes a part of Japanese culture, it obviously comes with a twist.

Look forward to it!

Sunday, November 27, 2011

Minimal Game now on Book Depository (free international shipping!)

My book Minimal Game is now also available on Book Depository. This is noteworthy because unlike, Book Depository offers free international shipping and only adds a modest premium to the retail price on imported books. In this case, this means that you can get Minimal Game for the amazing price of just €8.70, which means that it's a great option for everyone living outside the US and UK.

Saturday, November 26, 2011

Guest Article on

Amidst all the excitement surrounding the release of Minimal Game, I found the time to contribute an article to Chase Amante's blog to read my article "How to Truly Get Intimate with a Girl." This piece is especially useful if you are hung up on the idea of "really getting to know a girl" before daring to turn the interaction sexual.

Here's an excerpt:
I advocate a method of seduction that operates on the premise of having sex with the girl as early as possible. What this means depends of course a lot on your inclinations and circumstances. In any case, though, it should not take you three dates and six weeks until you finally make a move. 
This position flies in the face of mainstream dating advice, and also within the seduction community I have been vigorously attacked for it. While the former group thinks it’s a sign of moral decay to want to have sex with a girl quickly, although girls also want it badly, the latter seems to share this opinion as well. While there is the typical boasting and ill-intended advice to get over a girl by “GFTOW” — I’ll let you google that acronym for yourself, but you should also know that this concept is nothing but a fantasy for “PUAs” —, suddenly there is a regression to the morals of our grandparents once a guy realizes that he actually really, really just wants to have a girlfriend.

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Minimal Game beats a Cosmopolitan Guide

I skimmed some lists on recently, and was quite surprised that Minimal Game has captured the second position on the list of "Hot New Releases in Human Sexuality" aka. "Sex." My book is beating out a guide published by Cosmopolitan with the title "Satisfy a Woman Every Single Time."

I don't want to know how much money they have put into advertising it, while on the other hand Minimal Game sells only due to word of mouth. But without wanting to sound overly arrogant, I probably have more experience than all the "Editors of Cosmopolitan" put together, so I rightly deserve to beat them.

Thanks for the support guys!

Monday, November 21, 2011 reviews Minimal Game

Minimal Game is now out for a week, and all the feedback I've received has been extremely positive. Also, the first review of it is available. writes:

What's the gist of the book? Getting women minus all of the bullcrap that you've been fed by your seduction gurus. Not that nothing else works on women, but a lot of what is preached by various other gurus, is completely unnecessary.
It's not for guys who are caught up in the PUA fantasy of waving magic wands and spending hours memorizing banter that is a waste of time. And that's what I like about it. It's to the point, and tells you the truth that gurus have been hiding in order to keep their students in the dark. In other words, it is the most honest book that I've read about picking-up women.

Monday, November 14, 2011

"Minimal Game" is now available!

Minimal Game is now available for purchase! This is the description straight from my website.

Minimal Game: The No-Nonsense Guide to Getting Girls is the manual on seduction you have been waiting for! Instead of boring you with absurd theories or confusing you with contradicting advice, this book instead provides you with a solid foundation, no matter whether your goal is to become the next Don Juan or just to learn how to meet some more women.

Primarily, Minimal Game is written with the average guy in mind who just wants to get laid more often, and without having to rely too much on luck. This is a fairly modest goal, but it is a realistic one that is within reach for pretty much any man.

Sleazy Stories - Cover

Due to his vast experience with women, and by carefully analyzing the progress of his clients, Aaron Sleazy has identified what really counts when it comes to getting girls. Therefore, this book contains zero fluff and is instead 100 % full of concrete and actionable advice.

If you don't get laid, then work through Minimal Game. However, if you already get laid regularly, then still take the advice of this manual into account, because it will teach you how to be more successful in much less time. You will not only meet a greater number of women, but women you have more in common with. As a consequence, your relationships with women, even if they only last one night, will be more fulfilling.

Product Details & Order Information
Paperback: 110 pages
Language: English
ISBN: 978-3-942017-03-9

Paperback: • Book Depository

Sample (PDF, 300 KB)

Friday, November 11, 2011

Illuminatus reviews Sleazy Stories

Illuminatus, webmaster of Personal Power Meditation, recently reviewed my first book, Sleazy Stories, which contains some of the highlights from my career as a seducer. Here's an excerpt from his thorough and entertaining review:
Sleazy Stories is a first-person narrative of Sleazy’s time in London during his university placement at the London School of Economics. Its style is very dry and observational, providing a matter-of-fact account of events rather than the sensationalism found in other Seduction Community-related works such as The Game. The writing style therefore reminds me very much of George Orwell’s Down and Out in Paris and London and, like that book, paints the picture of an impartial observer moving within and trying to make sense of a foreign world. 
That is where the similarities end however, as I don’t remember George Orwell getting any blowjobs from 16-year-olds in nightclub toilets. For we must remember that, however stoic in his story writing, Sleazy’s single-minded focus is shagging birds, and in the book this becomes a lens through which he begins to view all of life’s events. The result of matter-of-fact observation combined with the single goal of shagging women can only be described as what romance novels would look like if they were written for men: porn, in other words.
You can read Illuminatus' full review of Sleazy Stories on his forum.

Friday, November 4, 2011

Coming Soon: Minimal Game by Aaron Sleazy

It has been in the making for over two years, but it is done now: Minimal Game: The No-Nonsense Guide to Getting Girls! In this book, I cover the foundations of seduction. You may now think that his has been done over and over before, but it actually hasn't. This book has zero fluff in it, and it contains simple, step by step instructions to help you make the most of your situation. I am not going to sugar-coat things, preferring brutal honesty all the way. I reveal how to maximize your appeal to women, no matter who you are and where you live. I will discuss the importance of the environment (which has been completely neglected by any other "guru" as far as I know), and I will present you with simple blue prints to success with women, much simpler than any of the available. This is possible because due to my vast experience I am able to identify what is necessary and what is just superfluous nonsense.
Since I expect to be asked about pricing, format and availability, I rather answer those questions in advance: the book is a high-quality paperback. You will be able to order it in stores or on Amazon and other online retailers, and the pricing is very attractive, too. It will be $9.95 in the US and £6.95 in the UK. If you import it, then the prices will be somewhat different. However, Book Depository will give you a great deal. The book will be available within about two weeks. I will upload a sample next week, but for today, the cover image will have to suffice. Look forward to it!

Thursday, November 3, 2011

There'll be Big News Tomorrow

Yes, that's right. Tomorrow I'll make a big announcement, and I promise that you won't be disappointed. All I am going to say is that "it" has been in the making for over two years now.

Monday, October 31, 2011

Say, Sleazy, are you a Racist?

My piece on Vince Kelvin seems to be an evergreen, given how many hits I get for it. Unsurprisingly, though, his homeboys in SoCal weren't so pleased about it. After a few months, I finally have the time to respond to the absurd charge that I am a racist. But let's take on step at a time!

On the Casanova Crew message board, someone started a thread with the title Community Shock Jock Tries tooling CC Vince Kelvin. The charge is that even though "certain jokes about Vince Kelvins appearance are funny!!!" (Thanks!), my statement that he should "Go for women shorter and your own race" didn't find his approval.

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Single Guys, your Life is NOT at Risk

Seriously, I have yet to come across anyone who makes more bizarre claims than Vin DiCarlo. Of course, an absolute classic is his "Why Working Out is Killing Your Chances with Women." However, he hasn't been lazy. Some time ago, he claimed that your life is at risk if you are a single guy. So, let's have a look at that marketing email:

Friday, October 28, 2011

Why the 90/10 Rule is Nonsense

It’s my lucky day because in addition to bashing BradP one more time, I also get to show you why one of the main teachings of the mainstream seduction industry is completely bogus. In one of his recent marketing emails, BradP defines the 90/10 rule as:
90/10 rule means that you are talking 90% of the time and the girl is talking 10% of the time. If that ratio is occurring early on in your approaches you are doing fine.
I am not specifically targeting BradP now, because this “rule” is one of the main dogmas of Mystery who is one of the founding fathers of the seduction industry. Instead of looking for some algorithm, let’s use some good old common sense and answer me this question: How large would the contribution of a girl who is really interested in you be? Probably at least 50%, and if you have spoken to a few girls in your life, then you also know that it’s easily the case that they just won’t stop talking, which means that you could well be restricted to 10% of the time, not the other way round.

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Super Mario Saves the Princess

Here's a hilarious parody of the Super Mario video games. It also pokes fun at traditional dating, so those two minutes of your time should be worth it:

(Thanks to Chicoman for the link!)

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Interview in German fanzine AntiEverything

Some weeks ago I mentioned that the fanzine AntiEverything is going to publish a lengthy interview with me. In the meantime, the eighth issue has been released.

On the official blog, a number of retailers are listed. Also, it's possible to order it directly from the publisher. Pages 66 to 74 are filled with said interview as well as a sample chapter of Schmierige Geschichten, the German edition of Sleazy Stories.

Monday, October 10, 2011

Jeez..... BradP's "Updated Phone Game Procedures"

My next book is coming along nicely. Since the text ins currently in the hands of my editor, I thought I'd continue with bashing BradP. But don't worry, you will learn plenty from this post even if you couldn't care less about this character.

In his recent newsletter, BradP gave his opinion on the current state of text game. So, check this out:

IMO the current best move is this-
Have a 20-45 minute text conversation, texting back and forth every 30 seconds or so. Along the way you'll send and receive dozens of texts. It's the new way to get to know each other. Then at the end you go for the day 2.
BradP, you are kidding, right? I really hope you do.

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Illuminatus Interviews Aaron Sleazy

Some time ago I have hinted at an upcoming interview Illuminatus from Personal Power Meditation conducted with me. It's long, but it will be worth it, especially if you want to learn more about my meditative practice and my general outlook on life, both of which had a big positive impact on my level of success with women.

This is from the introduction:
I made Sleazy my mentor, paying strict attention to his writings and exchanging emails with him regularly. As a meditation teacher, I became particularly interested in how Sleazy had used meditative methods to create the mindset of clarity and focus which he attributes much of his success to. Thus, instead of focusing on his adventures in seduction (which are already well-documented), in this interview I have chosen to focus on the mental basis of Aaron Sleazy: the man himself, and how he developed the psychological wherewithal to become a master seducer capable of flouting social norms and behaving on his own agenda at will – a feat most men only dream of.
Please go ahead and read Illuminatus's "Interview With Aaron Sleazy"!

Monday, October 3, 2011

Review: "How to Make Girls Chase" by Chase Amante

I have known Chase Amante for many years now. Our paths first crossed on mASF where he called himself Regal. He did not post much, but whenever he shared his knowledge, it was unusually insightful and very thorough as well. Thus, I was excited when I received his first book How to Make Girls Chase.

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

BradP wants you to void the warranty of your iPhone!

Oh well, oh well! Technology isn't everybody's strong suit, and being forwarded an email with the title "How to Chick-Proof your Iphone" surely raised my suspicion. In it, BradP, or some marketing drone that works for him, actually recommends a procedure for "proofing" your iPhone that will void your warranty. Isn't that handy?

Monday, September 26, 2011

BradP loves him some money!

I'm currently preparing two articles on BradP, but as a warmup, here's something I don't know whether I should laugh or cry about: His latest offering called "Millionaire Makeover". The price is a modest $100k. Surely, that's not exactly chump change. The reader who sent me that info commented, "$100k...what a joke!!", and I am sure if you have a sane bone left in your body, you'll agree.

But, hey, for that amount of money you'll receive some great stuff, like:

Lifestyle Streamlining
Positivity training

Wow. Where do I sign up for that?

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Three interesting posts at The Seduction Community

The magic over at The Seduction Community is already happening, and some very good posts have already appeared.

My buddy Sixty has re-posted his classic "Anti-Manifesto", which you should definitely check out if you haven't already.

I consider this an anti-manifesto because most strategies usually focus on what you need to do or say. There is nothing to say. There is nothing to do.

Your whole life you have been doing things to lessen tension. You have always tried to make everybody else around you feel more comfortable at your own expense. You do this with your friends, your co-workers and especially the women you like. When things get tense or awkward you're the big clown making everyone laugh and feel comfortable. Even when girls reject you, you are more worried about their comfort level than your own. You don't want her to feel awkward. Aw!

This is bad because doing things to help women feel more comfortable with the sexual tension will be viewed by her as supplication. A woman is never going to be attracted to a man that can handle LESS sexual tension than she can.
But there is some new blood, too. Warped Mindless wrote an article on "The ESP Model of Escalation." The acronym stands for Eye Contact, Sexualization, Physical Touch.

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Sleazy Stories finally in German!

You wouldn't read this if you weren't able to read German, so I'll switch to that language now:

Schmierige Geschichten: Bekenntnisse eines modernen Verführers

Schmierige Geschichten: Bekenntnisse eines modernen Verführers ist eine Sammlung von Aaron Sleazys erinnerungswürdigsten Begegnungen mit dem zarten Geschlecht. Er schildert seine unterhaltsamsten, verrücktesten und bizarrsten Abenteuer auf seiner Mission, im Nachtleben Londons und Berlins Frauen aufzureißen. Diese Memoiren zeichnen nach, wie Aaron Sleazy ein wahrer Meister der Verführung wurde. Obwohl dieses Buch die Erlebnisse von weniger als einem Jahr beinhaltet, enthält es mehr sexuelle Vielfalt und Kuriositäten als das gesamte Leben der meisten Männer.
Aaron Sleazy: Schmierige Geschichten
Obwohl Schmierige Geschichten kein Lehrbuch über die Verführung von Frauen sein will, sind die Geschichten, die es enthält, nicht nur höchst unterhaltsam, sondern auch mit faszinierenden Einblicken in die weibliche Psyche gespickt, die jedem, der an ihr interessiert ist, neue Erkenntnisse bringen wird. Egal, ob Du unterhalten, inspiriert oder über das wahre Wesen der Frauen aufgeklärt werden möchtest — dieses Buch wird Dich mehr als befriedigen!
Details und Bestellinformationen
Taschenbuch: 230 Seiten
Sprache: Deutsch
ISBN: 978-3-942017-02-2
Verlag: Black Swallowtail Publishing
Veröffentlichungstermin: 1. September 2011
Paperback: €8.95 (bald erhältlich) • •
Ebook (Amazon Kindle): €3.99, $4.99, £3.49 • •

Please note that I have no idea what's wrong with The paperback is already available at and, but the catalogue entry at their German site hasn't been changed. I'll email them about it.

Friday, September 16, 2011

Join us at!

Together with friends and colleagues, we have begun setting up a general-purpose forum on seduction which is open to everyone. We have aptly named it TheSeductionCommunity! Please join us over there.

Note: If you have an account at TheSeducers, then please register under your old username. TheSeductionCommunity is a separate forum, but we may be able to import the old forum posts. Consequently, the forum at TheSeducers will be frozen. But enough with the preliminary remarks, here is the announcement:

Our forum "The Seduction Community" is the result of our discontent with the general forum landscape on the Internet. There is literally no independent forum seduction left. Instead, sites such as mASF, MPUA Forum, RSD Nation, or the Attraction Forums are primarily used as a funnel for making people spend money on oftentimes questionable products.

Despite the rampant commercialism of mASF, it used to be the last remaining forum on which you could openly exchange your views. Well, this was at least the case until people like Aaron Sleazy, TVA_Oslo, TheCostOfSuccess, and SixtyYearsOfChallenge gained prominence and not only gathered a massive crowd of followers. They also questioned the efficiency of the mainstream teachings, which was still largely based on "routines" and baseless promises of "quick-fixes". Obviously, the stakeholders of mASF weren't too pleased about this development.

Thursday, September 15, 2011

Review: The End of Social Anxiety by Edward Cottrill (Illuminatus)

I am not the biggest fan of classical self-help books, and I only have to refer to a well-known title such as Tony Robbins’s Awaken the Giant Within to demonstrate why. First of all, a lot of those books are tomes. You could probably substitute your dumbbells with them. But filling hundreds of pages is not so easy, which is why you will find page after page full of jargon, hackneyed phrases with a kernel of truth and lengthy attempts to sell you seminars, often with greatly exaggerated claims. Reading those books almost makes you think that used car salesmen are pleasant to be around in comparison.

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Upcoming: Review of Illuminatus's "The End of Social Anxiety"

I just finished reading Illuminatus's "The End of Social Anxiety". I'll re-read some parts of it tomorrow, and will write a review shortly afterwards. The book has made a very good impression on me, and even if you don't suffer from social anxiety, you will benefit from reading it. But this short statement has to suffice for now. Look forward to the review!

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Upcoming Interview in German

The interview by Illuminatus I recently mentioned isn't the only one I recently finished. Those of you who understand German will soon have the chance to read even more from me. Instead of talking about seduction in detail, I will reveal more about my development as a seducer and what role my environment has played, before I eventually drift off to discussing the nightlife in London and Berlin. Finally, I will speak up on various gender issues. Feminists surely won't enjoy the reading, but if you've got a pair of balls in your pants, you will.

The interview will appear in the next issue of Anti-Everything, which will be released in early October. It will be available in various stores and from a number of mailorders. More news will follow in due time.

Re: Chat log with

You may remember that I have had a chat session with DutchAttraction last year. In my current drive to make my website and my writings more easily accessible, I have thus also re-edited the chat log, which is now much easier to read.

It went from somewhat unsightly formatting and the cumbersome fact that you had to read the log from bottom to top, as in:

Aaron Sleazy - do mei 20, 2010 8:28 pm
Trust me, if she doesn't like you, she will remove that arm
Aaron Sleazy - do mei 20, 2010 8:28 pm
She might stand at the bar and I put my arm around her waist casually
Aaron Sleazy - do mei 20, 2010 8:27 pm
Screening: Once I approach, it's how she reacts to my touch
Aaron Sleazy - do mei 20, 2010 8:27 pm
before deciding whether you should move on or not
Aaron Sleazy - do mei 20, 2010 8:27 pm
Think about it -- some basic maths -- would you rather approach four girls a night and spend 20 to 30 minutes with each, or approach this much more pleasant formatting:

Aaron Sleazy: Think about it -- some basic maths -- would you rather approach four girls a night and spend 20 to 30 minutes with each, or approach 30 girls and invest 5 minutes
Aaron Sleazy: before deciding whether you should move on or not
Aaron Sleazy: Screening: Once I approach, it's how she reacts to my touch
Aaron Sleazy: She might stand at the bar and I put my arm around her waist casually
Aaron Sleazy: Trust me, if she doesn't like you, she will remove that arm

So, go ahead and have a look!

Friday, September 9, 2011

People's Search Phrases

I almost fell off my chair when I went through my search log recently, because I came across this:

So, no, it is not "cool" to date rape someone, and it never was, even though the brainless minions on RSD Nation think otherwise. Jesus!

Some recent Forum Highlights

I'm still busy adding some of my best articles to my forum, but there is plenty of great stuff going on there already:

Illuminatus wrote an excellent introduction on meditation:
The Purpose of Meditation (For people who don't meditate)

To my great surprise, Krauser PUA himself joined the discussion. Unfortunately, he didn't stand much of a chance against my critical readers, and my questioning response whether it wasn't uneconomical to court a girl for half a year only to fuck her once seemingly drove him off for good.

Furthermore, the classic question how important money is for getting girls got settled once and for all (hopefully). But there is much more, so read on!

Thursday, September 8, 2011

"A Week with Sleazy" by Illuminatus

In late August I spent one week at Illuminatus's place in England. He has recorded his impressions in a post called "A Week with Sleazy" on his forum, and he covers a whole range of issues: meditation, breathing techniques, my world view,  but of course he also gives an outside view of seeing me in the club interacting with women.

Check it out!

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Update on Interview by Illuminatus

Some time ago I mentioned an upcoming interview Illuminatus from Personal Power Meditation has conducted with me. I can already tell you that the interview is done now. The word count is close to 7,000. This means that there will be a lot of content in it. The focus is not on seduction, though, but more on my worldview.

Now you may ask why the interview hasn't been released if it's done. Well, the reason is simple: it got picked up by Interesting Times magazine, a PDF publication that describes itself as a "self-help magazine for extreme people".

The next issue should be released in September. I will keep you posted.

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Classic Posts from 2009 are up now!

Following up on the previous post, I have now updated the Classic Posts section of my forum with a high-quality selection of posts from 2009. It includes masterpieces such as:

Really Smooth Escalations 
Three Techniques for indirect sexual Stimulation 
How to get away with utterly inappropriate Behavior in field
Practicing Push/Pull with Cats and Chicks
How the looks scale can keep you from progressing 

So, you think entering and maintaining a (monogamous) relationship is difficult!?
“All I want is a girlfriend!"
Lick her nipples like you lick her clit
Don’t expect anything and be grateful for everything 

Basic Club Dynamics: The Rhythm of Venues and People 

If you know of any other "guru" who not only is as experienced and knowledgeable as me, but also willing to share the majority of his work with the world free of charge so that others can improve their love life, then please let me know. (Yes, this remark is aimed at some of the trolls over at

Classic posts by Sleazy!

Today I have begun making some of my classic posts available again on my forum. Those are articles that have originally appeared on various forums or on my old blog. So far, I have gone through my posts from 2008, and have selected 26 great pieces, with all-time favourites such as:

The Power of Sexual Stereotyping

Don’t just be non-reactive. Be a bit of a dick!

The Asshole Rockstar gets away with everything

Is the PU industry a sham industry? Some observations.

Downsides of Being Alpha

Target selection for frustrated and constantly horny guys

Please check out the Classic Posts section on my forum!

I will add articles from 2009 later today. Posts from 2010 onwards will probably be cross-posted in relevant sections of my forum.

Monday, September 5, 2011

Russian guy grabs 1.000 (!) pairs of boobs

This is one of the most ridiculous videos I've seen in quite a while:

I don't quite get the Putin reference in the beginning, but I raise my hat for a guy who managed to convince 1.000 girls to get their boobs squeezed in front of the camera. If anything, it proves that there can be quite a healthy side to obsessive-compulsive disorders.

Saturday, August 20, 2011

Exclusive Pictures of Mystery

I'm currently going through a backlog of emails, and I'm surprised what some people have dug up. For instance, one guy who requested to remain completely anonymous sent me some nice pictures of Mystery. Well, I'll just repost them and you can form your own opinions of it. I think he looks a bit goofy, though. On the other hand, if I accidentally end up in a mainstream club with one of my "obscene" T shirts and skinny jeans, I'll probably look just as out of place.

Monday, August 15, 2011

Again available: Phone Coaching Sessions

I haven't offered any kind of coaching for about a year now. Unfortunately, I don't yet know when (or if) I'll be able to offer one-on-one "in-field" training again. However, my real-life schedule has become manageable enough to revive my phone coaching program.

Prices and duration are the same as last year. Given the current rate of inflation, this probably means that it has become a steal in the meantime. Please have a look at the detailed description at my website and contact me if you are interested.

Sunday, August 14, 2011

OGFurious is Back

I have mentioned "OGFurious" and his hilarious take on the seduction community a couple of times on my blog (such as here, and here). But recently, a reader of my blog (Thanks, M.!) has made me aware of the fact that the creator of the OGFurious persona, Dean Leysen, has returned with a more serious message.

In his YouTube channel he is addressing a view common criticisms, and he also adds some pretty good explanations, too, like in the following video, where he explains what mirror neurons are and why overanalyzing what the other person's reaction towards your behavior might be will only bite you in the a**:

Saturday, August 13, 2011

This could be the End of Online Dating as we know it. Seriously!

I promised to do more on Vin DiCarlo, but unfortunately I find his emails impossible to read. First I smile, then I laugh, but unfortunately, I too quickly get bored with them, so it might take me a while before I devote myself to this bullshitter again.

Fortunately, there are more interesting topics I have come across. For instance, very recently a friend of mine mentioned software algorithms that are able to make pictures of faces much more appealing. Just have a look at this:

That's a before/after no cosmetic surgeon will be able to produce

Friday, August 12, 2011

Upcoming: Illuminatus interviews Aaron Sleazy

My little piece on Vin DiCarlo and loneliness wasn't the surprise I had hinted at in my little teaser on the upcoming German translation of Sleazy Stories. No, it's something even better: while I have been incredibly busy the last 10 months or so, I'm now in the fortunate position to finally see some of my projects come to fruition. I've previously mentioned another book I'm working on already, but there is much more going on behind the scenes, such as an interview with Illuminatus. You may know him as Corvette from mASF, but like pretty much every other big name, he doesn't post there anymore.

Teaser: Cover of German Edition of Sleazy Stories

The German edition of Sleazy Stories with the title "Schmierige Geschichten" will be released very soon. If everything goes according to plan, which it so far does, you'll be able to order it next week already. I will release a sample PDF file as well. A dedicated page on my official website is already up and will be updated in due time.

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Are you as lonely as Vin DiCarlo?

I promised to dissect a few of Vin DiCarlo's email newsletters, but unfortunately I barely made it past the title of his latest one, which was called:

"The Loneliest Day Of My Life.."

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Quick Update on German Translation of Sleazy Stories


If you have been waiting for the German translation of Sleazy Stories, which I've kept hinting at for possibly a year now, I can assure you that the wait will very soon be over. All that is left to do right now are some minor modifications with the cover design. Expect the release announcement within a few days.

My non-German speaking fan crowd has no reason to despair either: I'll have a nice little revelation for you tomorrow.

Sleazy recommends: Scotty from

If you've been following my blog and my articles for a while, you'll undoubtedly have noticed that I hardly ever recommend guys in the "pick up industry". But some days ago I have added a link to "Good Looking Loser" in the side bar. Now you may wonder what this is about.

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Assanova is back

In case you have missed it, Assanova is back under a new URL, which is called Real Made Men. All his classic posts are back, too.


Sunday, August 7, 2011

Student of BradP dates widespread bikini girl image!

Whenever you think that the people in the seduction industry have hit a new low, such as BradP with his "two IT guys", it doesn't take much until you realize that this was just the beginning. So, to use one of RSD's Tyler Durden's favourite metaphors, "Let's venture deeper down the rabbit hole."

While it was fishy enough that BradP used an image that was spread on other websites, as my first source pointed out, another reader was quick to direct me to Google Images, a picture search engine. He was kind enough to create a permanent link as well. Now, please take some minutes and click on that link. The results will really blow your mind!

Hold your breath --- because we get 720 results for that image!

BradP, I'm onto you!

During the last year or so, BradP managed to rise to the position of one of my favourite bullshitters in the pickup industry. This guy loves to spout out how "authentic" he is, and how much "street cred" he has. Hell, he is as authentic as a fake leather jacket.

I'll reserve some longer future posts on his nonsensical back story and his shady marketing practices, but for today, a nice short post shall suffice. While I am not a big fan of anybody in the industry, I considered BradP to be comparatively "solid", which was why I didn't bother posting anything about him. In comparison to guys like Vin DiCarlo he is, after all, just a choirboy. But he certainly ventured off into the shady side of the Internet.

Recently, I got contacted by a guy who sent me some info on BradP's most recent marketing stunt. I'll let the guy speak for himself:

Friday, August 5, 2011

Joint Seminar with Illuminatus & Aaron Sleazy / Nottingham, England / 27th August 2011


it is my great pleasure to announce my upcoming seminar with Illuminatus aka. Corvette. If you have first come across my articles when I was still actively posting on seduction forums, you have surely read some of his writings as well, and if not, I urge you to check out his homepage as he has written a great number of interesting articles, and recently he has released his first book, too. Please note that this will be my only seminar in 2011.

Illuminatus will speak on overcoming social anxieties, a topic most relevant for seduction. My talk will be based on my upcoming third book, in which I will outline the by far clearest, simplest, and easiest to implement "method" of seduction. It will blow your socks off!

The full announcement is attached.

Best regards,
Aaron Sleazy

Friday, July 29, 2011

Frying Little Brains

I certainly can't say that I have been partying with future female nobel laureates recently, but I don't really mind that. Nonetheless, I do enjoy a minimum of intellectual rigour. What sounds like a rather dry affair did start rather juicy, after all:

I was bumping into a group of girls at a club and we were soon sipping champagne. One of them puts her arm around me shoulder and looks into my eyes. She says,

"You are gay, right?"

As I have said so many times, this translates to something like, "OMG!!1! I, like, think you are, like, so totally hot."

Thursday, July 28, 2011

Lovely Chick-Logic

One of my recent encounters involved a tall and beautiful French girl. The interaction did progress nicely, until she asked me from where I was. The conversation unfolded as follows:

"Wait, did you move to Berlin from abroad or are you from Germany?"
"I'm German."

Suddenly her lustful smile disappeared from her face and instead of intensely hugging me and caressing my back, she stepped back and frowned. She also started to sound rather aggressive:

"My ex-boyfriend was German, and he was such a.... such a... I don't know the male word, I mean he was, like, such a slut -- but the male version. Do you understand?"

I understood the words, but was unable to follow her reasoning at all.

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Quick Update: Upcoming Books, Posts, and a Seminar, too!

I have been incredibly busy with my life in recent months, and I'm spending most of the summer travelling. However, I will update the blog a bit more regularly in the future.

My email inbox is overflowing; and I think I'll do some more "community bashing". However, even though some of my critics love to accuse me for "being negative", a more than just cursory glance at those posts should make it obvious that there is plenty of "value" in those contributions.

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Phone Numbers and Business Cards

It's been weeks since I've last checked comments on my blog or followed the seduction community because real life just keeps me too busy, but I've got some material for great posts lined up already. Now I only have to find the time to write them.

My post on Vince Kelvin turned out to draw a lot of attention. I also got the usual barrage of emails full of faulty logic and incoherent thoughts, such as that I was racist in my statements and that I was deliberately trying to piss off some people. Truth hurts, which means that if you are Vince Kelvin and can't stand the heat, then just don't enter the f*cking kitchen.

Saturday, April 23, 2011

Updates on Sleazy Stories for Kindle

Amazon has updated its Kindle Stores. This means that you can now buy Sleazy Stories for the following prices:

Amazon US Kindle store: $0.99

Amazon UK Kindle Store: £0.71

Amazon German Kindle Store: €0.79

This is great news because previously the pricing seemed to vary a lot, with some people reporting up to $3.44, which was also irritating because my share of the revenue remained the same, and Amazon simply pocketed an additional $2.50.

Friday, April 22, 2011

Vince Kelvin, the Joke is on you!

While going through my backlog of emails, I came across a hilarious video filmed in Los Angeles, home to the "Casanova Crew", which describes itself as the "largest active pick up artist community in North America". There was a time when they made more modest claims, and I'm sure by the rate the ego of their administrator J The Ripper is growing, he will soon claim to run the biggest forum in the universe.

The video is a collage of impressions from a talk given by "Vince Kelvin". Here's the link to those nine minutes of unintentional humor, but maybe you want to skip ahead and read my commentary first.

Metropolis Season 8, Ep. 2 - Pick Up Artists from Joshua Kun on Vimeo.

The link to the video was sent by James (thanks!). He commented:

I think this video might be better than ASS because its actually real with Vince Kelvin.
Guys are so easily impressed by nothing.. enjoy

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

RSD cool with date rape

I recently received a hilarious email from Jon, and the title was catchy, too, so I had no choice but to check out the link he sent me. His comment was, "This is actually the most fucked up thing I have seen on a forum." Well, I have seen many fucked up things on forums, and the most shocking was a "rape report" on misogynists anonymous, er, mASF called LR : Hottie Hardcore LMR day2 in which a user named "gruenfeld" boasts about overcoming 100s of objections, only to have his cock greeted by a completely dry pussy.

Just look at this:

We literally explored the whole area of bed while I wrestle with her. Kept on
pinning her down. My penis is not hard enough to force it yet. She's twisting
her legs to prevent entry. She wants me to be on fire. Her hands on my hands to
keep from fingering her. Finally, I succeeded on fingering her. All this time
she kept saying no. Heard it about a hundred times.

Fingered her, she tried escaping and getting off bed. For the first time in my
life I experienced hardcore LMR. She kept on saying "Stop! Please! it hurts!
no! NO!" I just kept on thinking TD pinning his GF. She wants it.

After this historic lesson, let's fast forward to Real Social Dynamics in 2011.

Jon had only given me the actual link, but the title of the thread was already embarrassing enough. It is, Lie your way inside a womans vagina (People with morals DO NOT READ).

Frankly, after skimming the first few paragraphs I thought that "Fingerman" can't be serious. Just look at his guide to pulling a "retarded, drunk and fucking hot 18 years old":

Once you pulled her away from the friends, made out, and have a somewhat chill vibe going on (takes 15 -30mins), you say "this bar sucks, lets go to another bar". If she wants to know where it is, you say 2 min walk. If she has to get her coat, you guys go get the coat, if she has to say bye to her friends, you tell her what to say and hope to god that it's gonna work. If she refuses, you didnt do the first part right.

Once youre out, walk 2 blocks away from the bar. get in a cab and go to your house. If she objects, say its too cold/hot to walk./ Its just 5 min/i just wanna kiss/ can we kiss?/ ignore what she says and physically force her. If you cant verbally and physically dominate a drunk 18 yo girl that likes you, please kill yourself.

To get inside your house, tell her you need to get money before you guys go to the bar. Once inside, quickly take off your coat and shoes and put on some music, dim lights and pour yourseld a drink. In 1 min or less. Start making out, tell her youre gonna make her visit. Quickly take her to your room and if she says anything while you take off all your clothes, tell her to shut the fuck up, and make her go on her knees and suck your dick. Only worrt about taking off her clothes once youre fully naked and shes jerking you off or sucking your dick.

Shes young, shes drunk, she likes you.she wont resist. Or not a lot.

You need to act quick, dont let her any time to think or lead.
Only pace yourself to get a vibe going. Do not hesitate, or youre fucked. Dont be afraid to physically force her to do anything or to tell her no or shut up. (can make her not like you and fuck up the pull so only do it ifnecessary)

This is sad enough, but look at the comments! Here are some:

this is accurate

retarded, drunk, hot 18 years olds are my favourite

Nice fingerman your advice is as always so fucking helpful, strategic, and intelligent.

No comment.

One user chimes in and recommends martial arts so that you learn how to force yourself upon women:
Yeah that bit about jiu jitsu... I actually recommend taking some form of martial art for improved man handling abilities, bjj + strength training = god tier manhandling skills.

However, I find it impossible to tell if some of the people are actually serious. First I thought that "Saint Etienne" was making fun of "Fingerman", but the last part of his comment made me think otherwise:

yeah, and then when you're done with her, you just like grab all her clothes an then throw em at her, then shout get out you fucking whore. women deserve this because of what they've done to us

RSD instructor Jeffy aka. "jlaix" is "Loving the responses.", instead of banning this dude and deleting the thread in order to save face. Jesus. Even worse, Jeffy seems to have edited his comment, because he gets quoted with "Anyone actually fucking chicks on a regular basis knows this is what's up" by another user.

I couldn't bring myself to reading the whole thread, but Jeffy's later comment says it all: "We're here to fuck girls not assuage hypothetical psychological wounds and/or better society. I'm frankly a little sick of KJ moralizing and hand wringing about this shit. Let's not sugar coat what it is we are doing here too much. We're FUCKING WOMEN."

OK, got you, what's so wrong about using a little force if it means that you get your little pecker wet, right?

That those nine pages of comments to the forum thread have the potential to make you lose faith in humanity. Viz:

5-stars. OP is dead on target. My "game" is still intermediate but I've experienced enough to begin to see this is how it really goes down, even if I can't yet pull it off myself.

Part of the problem for me is fear that if I am this aggressive with a girl, especially a young drunk girl 10 to 15 years my junior, she may cry "rape" the next day. Not because it happened but because she wants to justify her slutty behavior. It sounds like you just need to be extremely calibrated to sense if she's really down and just putting up token resistance or if she really feels "forced" into doing things.

I actually have no moral issues at all with the OP (hell I think the age of consent should be 17, even 16 on case-by-case...), it's just our society's fucked-up laws on sex that scare me.

Not the laws are fucked up but this guy who fantasizes of raping girls half his age and getting away with it.

Not all hope is lost for mankind, though. Some users made statements such as:

This is quite disturbing...especially how many times you wrote and emphasized "physically force her". But hey....

I also liked this one:

i have advice for you, instead of having to wait to find the drunk girls, just roofy them since yer in such a hurry!

But please excuse me now, I've got to vomit.

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Sleazy Stories now for Amazon's Kindle — only $0.99!

In my last post I mentioned I was in the process of converting Sleazy Stories to Kindle, and it turned out that this was a rather straightforward process. Here's a random excerpt thanks to Amazon's Kindle Previewer:

Some sacrifices had to be made for formatting. Kindle uses a simplified HTML layout engine, which means that the book doesn't quite reach the level of the paperback version, which was typeset in LaTeX. I'm nonetheless satisfied with the result because the text is very readable and easy to navigate.

Also, since this is my first foray into e-publishing, and because I view Sleazy Stories as a test balloon, I'll make you the very sweet offer of setting the retail price for the ebook at just $0.99. Pricing in other regions is accordingly. It should be 75p in the United Kingdom,  for instance. However, in other regions, the price may be higher, which is due to some policy of Amazon, since I can only set the price for the UK and US market. Get Sleazy Stories now if you haven't bought it already! :)

Sleazy Stories finally on Kindle

Sunday, March 13, 2011

Upcoming Releases

Today, I have started on converting Sleazy Stories for Amazon's Kindle. I have done a rough first conversion of the text, but there are some minor formatting issues which have yet to be sorted out. I will keep you updated about the status of this project.

Also, I have finished the translation of Sleazy Stories into German. The book has to go through just one more proof-read. If everything works out, it will be released as a paperback as well as in an ebook version for Kindle.

It's been almost a year now since I have released Debunking the Seduction Community. The effect this ebook had was beyond my wildest expectations, and I still regularly receive emails about it. I have gathered a lot of material for an update, but I also want to keep it as concise as possible. This means that I will probably only release a minor update, but the few pages of new content should be worth it.

Lastly, I have been working on a manuscript for an instructional book on seduction for a while. The promise is nothing more than to lay out the most concise, efficient and versatile approach to seduction. The feedback I have received on drafts has been ecstatic. The book is currently in its final stages, and I'll reveal more about it soon. However, if you ask me when I'll be releasing it, I'll take the same stance as ID Software does with its games: "When it's done."

Friday, February 11, 2011

Thoughts about the Industry, and Mr "Shit happens" Gunwitch

I've been rather busy these days, and it won't change for a while. Yes, I know that I announced a post on the movie "The Great Happiness Space", and it is still on my to-do list, as is everything else I have previously mentioned. But before I'll do that, I have to take care of all the other stuff that showed up in my email inbox, such as a notification about a lengthy comment to my post "PUA "Gunwitch" Shoots Girl in Face, Fans Still Love Him"

An organizer of PUA events felt compelled to voice his opinion. Since there are some rather interesting points that are worth discussing, it wouldn't be appropriate to just bury them in the comment thread.

So, here we go:
Look actually it all is about the "bad things" in the community. This is a fairly new business. There is no control what so ever.

True. There is no control whatsoever. People are scamming left and right, and apparently those businesses seem to think it's fine to not honor any of their promises, like the infamous "money back guarantee". Heck, recently, someone had to make a thread on PUA Hate and expose Andy "Yosha" from, and after several hundred views he -- surprise, surprise -- received an answer to his email requests and received his refund. But try this with PUA Training or Love Systems, who openly declare in the fine print that their programs are only for "entertainment purposes".

People are bashing a lot all the people who make a lot of money in this scene. Only if they provide you with what you want, it's okay.

That's a typical argument from scammers all over the Internet. In the Internet Marketing scene, it's also typical to hear the shills of Frank Kern et al. say that people only hate him because he is oh so successful. It doesn't matter that he offers products of questionable quality and encourages illegal business practices (as Salty Droid repeatedly pointed out). Well, Frank Kern and others ran into legal problems with the FTC for valid reasons, and, no, it wasn't because they had "the wrong disclaimers on their website", as Frank Kern's buddy Neil Strauss writes in his book "Emergency".

And then the other evaluation problem with this business is, it also depends of the motivation of the customer.

Oh, so if company X makes exaggerated promises if can't possibly deliver ("learn to get any women not matter how you look, how much money you have, or where you live" :P), it's suddenly the customer's fault if he doesn't succeed?

It's like Weight Watchers. If you don't loose the weight. Weight Watchers is to blame? You don't carry some of the "weight?"

Haha, that's a great comparison. The weight loss industry is shady, too. Well, we all know that if we want to lose weight, we have to eat healthy food, skip Coke, fast food, and all those crappy ready-meals, and exercise too. But for some those are unpleasant choices, so they prefer getting ripped off by various companies/authors that claim that they are okay. Instead of a healthy life style, they just have to follow some fad diet or some nonsensical procedures, which of course don't work. But because those people are beyond hope, they don't question the products themselves but buy into the next fad.

Similarly, what's the situation with pick up? In a nutshell, it is something like: "don't look like shit and talk to girls", but instead Vin DiCarlo tells you that working out kills your chances with women, Love Systems puts out a "manual" on texting, and Tyler from Real Social Dynamics believes that Brad Pitt is not good looking, and that his level of physical attractiveness has nothing to do with how attractive he is perceived to be. It's nothing but mindbogglingly stupid stuff.

From what I hear Gunwitch did a lot to help people for free. I think he actually earned the least of everyone who is in The Game.

Isn't this a non-sequitur? Or are you honestly saying that because Gunwitch didn't make as much money as Mystery did, he can blow some girl's face off? Heck, money has nothing to do with this.

He could have been successful if had cooperated with guys like Frank Kern or Eben Pagan. And then he would have a lot of money, and maybe would not have shot Amber.

OK, the trip down logical lane continues: You may want to read this brief survey of the issue of so-called counterfactuals. If-then-reasoning is rather pointless, in my not so humble opinion. Well, should you ever get stabbed in a dark alley, I'm sure you wouldn't think, "If only this guy had been a successful pick up guru that had teamed up with Internet Marketers. Then he would have had enough money and wouldn't have needed to rob me."

Luckily Amber is okay.

Is she? As far as I know, she is still missing half her face. Or do you mean by "okay" that she is not dead?

And the community will not have any problem with guys like Gunwitch.


Some guys and girls in this time have difficulty to get together. Spite all the freedom, there always will be problems with relations between guys and girls. So this industry is here to stay.

Sure, the sexes have issues with each others, but do you honestly believe this industry solely exists to help people? Have you ever head anyone say that he turned down a potential client because he wasn't ready (yet)? When I was coaching, I always made sure the guy would really profit from working with me, and if there was no fit, I told them what the issue was. Surely, Mystery and Gambler gladly take $3,000 from overweight guys instead of telling them to get in shape first.

And at some time people will take on control, built schools, have certifications etc. Look at NLP (Richard Bandler was a suspect in murdering a woman too). It's all there.

NLP didn't hold up to scientific scrutiny, and if one day there will be a "Worldwide Association of PUAs" with certifications and all that sh*t, it still won't turn this scene into a legitimate industry.

Give it time, the industry is like 6 years old or something. There always going to be more shit happening.

I'm counting on that.

Just like any other business who is not controlled by an indepedent council. And even then shit happens.

Where in this world do you have "independent councils"? Industries govern themselves, and the financially most powerful ones happily bribe governments to make sure they can continue ruining the planet (BP, Exxon etc) and ruin the lives of people and entire economies (Goldman Sachs, Bank of America etc.)

So shit happens.

Yes, shit happens, and shit will continue to happen, but tell me what else this fact provides than a good reason to get depressed?

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Apple is promoting whoring

I recently skimmed the Apple online store. Yes, I'm talking about the company that makes fashionable and overpriced technology products such as iPhones, iPods, iPads, and computers. However, when I saw this I chuckled:

So, Apple encourages you give iPads to women: "This will be yours if you will be mine." Horrible, just horrible!

Somehow it seems that Apple products are bought to a large extent by women, and I don't even want to imagine how many of them browse the Apple store website, see this, and begin to bitch to their husbands or boyfriends that they "so deserve" to get an iPad for Valentine's Day.

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Chase Amante reviews Sleazy Stories

Chase Amante from Girls Chase has reviewed my book Sleazy Stories. He has written a lengthy and balanced article. My favorite part is:

Some of the most rewarding parts of the book, at least for me, come when Aaron reaches important realizations: when he reasons he’s been playing his dates too safe, for instance, and starts moving faster and taking more risks. The feeling you get as a reader is akin to that you get in an epic fantasy when the hero realizes he’s graduated from small skirmishes and is ready to face his long-time tormentor in battle now, except instead of a battle we’re talking about seduction, and instead of a sword, Aaron is swinging a big, long… well, you know ;)

You can read the full review of Sleazy Stories on his blog. Furthermore, you can check out some sample chapters on my website, which also has the ordering information.

Monday, January 10, 2011

Gunwitch has to free up time for "other stuff"

Today is just like yesterday. I dicked around on the Internet for a bit, thought I should check out on new developments on the Gunwitch case, and nearly fell off my chair laughing. If you check his website, you'll now see the following announcement:

Well, in light of recent events it is no surprise that he has to free up more of his time for "other stuff". So, now better hurry! For once in this industry you can believe that this is not just a marketing method.

(Thanks, PUAHate!)