Saturday, July 16, 2016

This is what happens to Beta Males on Tinder

Women have fully taken their dating game to Tinder, i.e. get attention from losers, hope that some hot stud wants to bang them, and extract money as well as services out of the "bottom 90%" of men. This is apparently how a rather unattractive woman close to 50 views the world. Surprisingly, there is no shortage of chumps.

Let's quote the NY Post:
When Fiona Bloom needed an air conditioner installed in her Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn, apartment three weeks ago, she went on Tinder.

The 47-year-old, who has been dating in NYC for the past 20 years, decided to put the app to use after being repeatedly disappointed by the city’s dating pool. “I’ve tried speed dating and all the dating apps, but every time I put my real age, all I get are idiots and losers,” Bloom, a publicist, tells The Post. “I figured, why not make them useful and have them help me around the house?”


 I don't even...
“Men are hard-wired to feel strong and be a provider,” she says, noting she’s also used this method to hitch a ride to the Hamptons. “I don’t feel guilty using them for a little help.”

Read the rest here.

I really wonder how stupid and desperate a guy must be to fall for a con like that.



25 comments:

  1. I can't imagine why a manipulative entitled cunt identifies all men that eat her bullshit and find her attractive as losers. I suppose that to like her you would have to be.

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  2. They could use ManServant...of course that entails a fee...

    Read the profile on page 37 of this trope PDF: https://miscmagazine.com/app/uploads/2016/06/The-Future-According-to-Women-final.pdf


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  3. I bet she sits home thinking how superior she is. Alone, that is.

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    1. I'll have a section on "being alone" in my book on relationships. The interesting thing is that men above a certain level of intelligence don't mind being alone. This is sometimes summarized as "boredom is for boring people". On the other hand, it is much rarer that women are able to develop strong interests that go beyond socializing and relationships. Since women so much more focused on family and strongly crave for a partner, even though it may be the kind of guy that is completely out of their reach, they tend to project their own insecurities on men. Thus, women often attempt to shame men into relationships or even marriage, by describing their own fears of "dying alone" and not having children, assuming that a guy with options who fucks plenty of women and is not even close to hitting top sexual market value is just as emotionally fragile as she is. This now leads to hypergamy ("marrying up"): every guy she fucks because she wants to fuck him ("alpha"), she perceives to have a higher status than her, and rightly so. Thus, her insecurities are multiplied because she either knows or 'feels' that he can easily have others, unlike the betas who can't get laid, and who look up to her.

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    2. Interesting scenario. So if girls fuck "alphas" because they have higher status than them is it safe to deduce that alphas mostly fuck less attractive women(relative to their own standing)?

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    3. In this context, "less attractive" in relative terms may certainly mean "very attractive" in absolute terms. Thus, "alphas" certainly don't fuck whales. with the exception of fake alphas (i.e. PUAs). Instead, it means that they can reliably fuck women who are at the very least cute. Such a woman, in turn, easily ends up comparing all guys she could get to the one or two times some "alpha" pumped and dumped her because she made herself available. That's what Alek Novy recently referred to when describing women who attempt to make themselves more attractive by acting in a sexually more aggressive manner and wearing sluttier clothing.

      An "alpha" who just wants to get laid will not hold out for that one perfect ten who is playing games. Well, he may, but at the same time, he's going through 7+ chicks to get his rocks off, without any intention of entering a relationship. On the other hand, a non-prime material woman will make herself sexually available to various men, desperately hoping that they will stick around.

      On a related note, I do think that there are many more "alphas" than top-shelf women around, because women peak relatively early, but men can be attractive far longer. Also, if your looks aren't that great, you'll have another shot at getting chicks though making money, getting a nice place and a decent car. An older woman, though, won't be able to regain her youth by getting a pair of fake tits.

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    4. Note also that higher status can mean something else than looks. Some girls can be low status because of their weird personality/mannerism (nobody wants to be seen talking to/hanging out with this weirdo). Personally that's my favorite kind of girls : I absolutely don't mind if the girl is socially awkward/a fucking weirdo. As long as she is sexually attractive. I even think girls have to be socially awkward because it makes them weak and weak girls are attractive. I certainly DON'T want my girlfriend to be socially popular or whatever.

      Also higher status can be objective, but also subjective. Maybe the girl is much more attractive than you, but she absolutely don't believe it. Good for you in this case.

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    5. Weird mannerism among girls are much rarer than among guys, though, considering that girls are very concerned with fitting in. It is even rarer to meet a girl that is both 'weird' and sexually attractive.

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  4. I'm sorry to see a real decline in the quality of your blog. You used to mock PUAS for talking about betas and alphas and have a much more positive tone. Now you just dwell in the gutter like all the rest of them. I might as well be reading Roosh or Vox Day.

    I guess you figured out that stoking resentment, rage, and hatred makes much more money than helping men become well adjusted and positive.

    And it's true, the good money lies with mockery, resentment hatred. Roosh, Day, figured that out a long time ago.

    And these days, it's more psychologically gratifying.

    You were one of the last good ones.

    Alek Novy has allowed himself to become so consumed by bitterness and rage - and it is a choice, a person can choose to reject resentment - that he is barely worth listening to anymore.

    And now you.

    There is no one good left anymore.

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    1. That is quite an absurd statement, mate.

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    2. Stop being such a wimpy cuck, Jared

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    3. I'm surprised you could see his blog from way up there on that high horse, Jared. Maybe if you squint hard enough, you can see that he's talking about the bottom 90% of men, but you wouldn't know anything about them since they're so far beneath you. Why bless us with even a comment, as you've done so much more for society than Sleazy or Novy?

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  5. This has happened before, generally with hotter and younger girls. Getting tinder connections to buy them pizza and get it delivered. It has even become a competition. Lots of guys fall for it.

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    1. This reminds me of a 17-year old I was "dating" in London. We would hang out and she would ask me whether I wanted to get some food, laughs, and messages some suckers, asking them to order food for them ("Me and my friends are hungry. Can you please order X, Y, and Z for us."). She did this to impress me. I was amazed at how stupid those guys were. Of course when they asked whether they could hang out, they were told, "not tonight, but some other day". A friend of hers told me that she sometimes lets herself get picked up by "losers with money" in expensive bars, requests to be taken to a nice hotel, insists on ordering meals via room service --- much more than she could eat. She and her friends apparently found it very amusing to leave the guy behind in a hotel room he didn't even need, with blue balls and enough food for a family.

      Long story short: don't be an idiot.

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    2. Being a parasite seems so much fun.

      I can't believe how desperate some guys are.

      That's why I make all my girls cook for me. Even ONS. I turn the tables.

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  6. As psychotherapists C. G. Jung & Erich Neumann have proved so very convincingly, the female is programmed to always seek the opposite YOU, with whom to be in some kind of constant exchange – be it a "partner", or the fetus inside her womb attached to her by the umbilical cord, or her insipid girlfriends with whom she's having her afternoon coffee chat or the never-ending stream of null gossip via WhatsApp and the likes.

    As far as the factory settings are concerned the female apparently CANNOT ever really function or simply be or exist on her own.

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    1. That is also quite an absurd statement, mate ;)

      The biggest joke of this article is in the second sentence IMO: 'has been dating in NYC for the past 20 years'. FOR THE PAST 20 YEARS! Such a person is unable to settle with the options available to him/her.

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    2. Considering that she is in her late 40s, she has presumably been dating for over 30 years, which is quite tragic, considering that she is well beyond her 'best before' date.

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    3. I hadn't seen her actual age. I don't know many women in this age category because I am in my 20s, but she seems to look good for her age, to be fair.

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  7. PS, if you want to see how desperate guys are, just go to any local dating auction. Desperate guys easily throw up between $200-$300 minimum just to go on a date with a girl that isn't even all that attractive. While the money usually does go to charity, I doubt that was the guys' motivation.

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    1. $300 for a fucking date? Jeeeesus. For that money they could rather hire an escort. But they do those kind of things not for the promise of sexual satisfaction, but because they clinge on the romantic mirage, the illusion of having a "meaningful relationship". They don't seem to realize that you only can achive those kind of things by meeting (and fucking) a lot of women until you find someone whom you can feel comfortable almost all the time and you can share more of your time.

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    2. bull fucking shit! you don't need to fuck a lot of woman to be comfortable with one. you just need to be comfortable with yourself, know your standards and stick to them.


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  8. About that book on relationships : have you a date for the release in mind ?

    I'm very interested in it.

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    1. This book will take a while as there are others I want to finish first.

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